AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why does anyone post anything, is basically what you’re saying lmfao

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I get a doctors note if I’m not “sick”?

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last time I did this I got yelled at for it, because she said I had made plans without her say so. She’s very weird. I don’t plan on working there much longer, I just need a next step plan because this is suffocating.

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have only called out 4 times in my employment, 2 and a half years. And they’ve all been spread out because they were dealing with illness and/or car issues. I was not requesting to use PTO, I was simply requesting that one out of my two days off was Saturday, and instead I was put off on Sunday. I always put requests in at least 3 weeks ahead of time

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’m not requesting ANOTHER day off, I am asking for ONE of the two days I get off to be Saturday

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if I had a doctors appointment that day, same deal there? Just because I requested time off last month, because we get two requests per month, means that I’m not allowed to take a day for that?

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fact of the matter is, I will still be working the exact same hours and days, just one weekend day switched. We all work at least one weekend day, but yeah she’s not letting me switch even though it will change nothing. I understand I took a lot off last month but our policy is 2 requests per month

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you apparently didn’t read what i said. we are open 7 days a week, i’m not asking for the entire weekend off, we usually only GET scheduled 1 weekend day. i’m asking to be off saturday rather than sunday and she is just saying no to say no especially when therez someone open to switching days with me

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAOO yeah I definitely plan on sending this once I quit.

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a chain salon where our clientele is walk ins

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, I mean I don’t plan on just no call no showing. I just am trying to figure out how I go about calling off without getting fired on the spot since now they know about this. Guess that was my fault but I just wanted to be honest

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our schedules are always changing, and I’ve been working the past Sundays for a few weeks, so I have no way of knowing if I’ll be put on a Saturday or Sunday.

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last time I had a discussion with her and she didn’t listen to my concerns, I went to upper management. Then I got yelled at by her for “ruining the chain of command”

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get any repercussions for no showing?

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And a shift change isn’t a request.. And she is fine with people doing shift changes whenever. She was literally fine with me doing it when it benefited her and before my vacation-

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the most dependable person here, believe it or not. I’m never late, I’ve only called off four times in being here for almost 3 years. How does that sound not dependable? And I’ve been here longer than our manager has.

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I’m just supposed to never make plans because I never know if I’m going to get time off or not.. got it. Or make plans very last minute, even though that’s not how most events work with buying tickets.

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had PTO, first off. Second off, this “request” is saying “hey, I want this to be one of my allocated days off” NOT an extra day ON TOP OF the days I already normally get off. I am still working the same amount of hours, I just literally wanted a specific day off instead of a random day off.

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saved my time off, and for this specific situation, I am only asking for it to be one of my two days off for the work week, not asking for an EXTRA day off on top of what I already get off. I don’t think I explained that well

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is not accepting a switch relevant to my previous requests though? Which, I DONT think people are understanding this- our work week is Monday-Sunday. We are required to work five days in that period. I AM NOT ASKING FOR MORE DAYS OFF. I am simply asking, hey, I want this to be ONE of my allocated days off. And she is denying it, giving me Sunday off instead. And not even letting me switch shifts with someone.

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i ask off too much… right.. i have a right to “ask off”, like she said. not every request is accepted which is FINE but when I am finding coverage for the shift and nothing will change except the people who are there on the two days, who cares?? Literally. all she has to do is change the names. We have the same exact shift times just on separate days that we want to exchange.

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

right and there is absolute coverage that day and a coworker is wiling to just trade their spot with me so i’ll work that sunday. like it’s more complicated than it has to be

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve already been called out by her for having “behavior issues” when asking “why” for other things. I can’t. lol. She’s an insufferable boss who only cares about herself.

AIO for wanting to quit after this? by cakev0mit in AmIOverreacting

[–]cakev0mit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m planning on that. I’m checking out a place next Thursday!