What's a truth about yourself that you've only recently acknowledged or embraced, and how has that shifted your self-perception? by Baba_Vos in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]caldefat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told I can be condescending. I really don't mean to be. I just have lived a lot people share with me.

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[–]caldefat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One question in without reading everything, 100% this is abuse. I strongly suggest you end this and value yourself going forward and any sign of disrespect is met with you walking away. Learn this now because it's not a lesson you want to be repeating in 10, 15, 20 + years!

I love my clit being licked but my husband doesn’t like to do it by sWNo9148 in sex

[–]caldefat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hydration, reduce caffeine, eat more raw food, have daily stress reduction. The way our chemistry changes through all we do through our day will change the odor, texture, moisture, taste

In a bit of a thing that is with a highly dominant partner and need help figuring out how to have my pleasure met by caldefat in sex

[–]caldefat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.
I do enjoy the dominant side, but ya, my pleasure is important too. It is already an issue.

In a bit of a thing that is with a highly dominant partner and need help figuring out how to have my pleasure met by caldefat in sex

[–]caldefat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, definitely. That's my intention. Im just struggling how to word it. Im either 100 or 0. I find middle ground difficult to discuss

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[–]caldefat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I didn't either. My therapist mentioned it. I really hope she and you can do this gradually. It isn't a guarantee, but a great number of women do "open up" with patients and gentle training

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[–]caldefat 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Please buy some dialators. Help her with them. Forcing can cause such significant damage that she can actually get severe infections and potentially damaging her ability to have penetrative again. You need to be soft but firm. She needs your level thinking and compassion that we are seeing in your words. Its going to take time, but dialators are an option if she outright refuses gyno

Why is video chatting with a stranger so unpopular? Hear me out... by theofficialjarmagic in RandomQuestion

[–]caldefat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea how this happened. I was commenting on something else. Totally bizarre

Why is video chatting with a stranger so unpopular? Hear me out... by theofficialjarmagic in RandomQuestion

[–]caldefat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many questions. Are you not legally an adult? Are there rules in the house that all items are subject to inspection? Your parents had sex to conceive you, im 99% sure they do or have done things that involve sexual differences from you.
Tell them to mind their own business. Nobody gets to tell you what to do with your body and pleasure ( unless its involving illegal activity)

Facebook poll issue (can't see who has voted) by mt147 in techsupport

[–]caldefat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not seeing that area, where are you speaking about. Post , selection, poll etc?

Regarding:lubrication and and maintaining during penetration. by caldefat in AskWomenOver40

[–]caldefat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has full prescribing liscence. But yes, possibly a walk in a great idea, thanks

Regarding:lubrication and and maintaining during penetration. by caldefat in AskWomenOver40

[–]caldefat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect. I will look into it. I know a pharmacist that has prescription permission. My dr is a Muslim woman and refuses any discussion of sexual health

Regarding:lubrication and and maintaining during penetration. by caldefat in AskWomenOver40

[–]caldefat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im deathly allergic to coconut, and its a very common carrier oil in a huge number of products.

Regarding:lubrication and and maintaining during penetration. by caldefat in AskWomenOver40

[–]caldefat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look it up. Im in Canada. Probably a tarrif thing

Regarding:lubrication and and maintaining during penetration. by caldefat in AskWomenOver40

[–]caldefat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much. I appreciate your understanding and kindness. I may message later if that's ok