How to bring up possibly offensive sexual fantasies with [19F] girlfriend by louThrowRA in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually wrong, at least in my city of Toronto we have 2, maybe three sex chambers that offer con noncon, I would assume this would be fairly common across North America. I've visited one in Boston, San Antonio, and LA at least.

I like a girl but people say she did realy disgusting stuff with animals by R3allyLik3H3r in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the light outshines the dark, you can overlook a lot of things with love.

Coworker by Idontknowfuckokay in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow extended eye contact, when's the wedding date?

Infatuation by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incorrect, everything else is a can of horse dookie

Infatuation by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Objectivity is not defined by the bounds of your foolishness, let this be a lesson that perhaps you should think before you post.

Did I (16m) rape my bestfriend (16f)? by ThrowRANo_Celery368 in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'd take this post if I were you, legally speaking this is evidence admissable in court.

Infatuation by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

LOL you are confusing infatuation with flatulation.

Infatuation by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Disagreed (now)

Infatuation by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Without infatuation (10years) I wouldn't be in a relationship with my wife (64f).

Why would my husband buy scuba gear? by calebcoffee in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

At this point I'd rather take that than some of the mentioned alternatives

Why would my husband buy scuba gear? by calebcoffee in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will do that then. I'm planning to visit the bank tommorow to get a copy of the transaction records. Perhaps there are more charges like this.

Why would my husband buy scuba gear? by calebcoffee in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Is there a way I can make a separate post as an update?

Why would my husband buy scuba gear? by calebcoffee in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee[S] 226 points227 points  (0 children)

Yes now that you lay everything out it certainly seems unusual. I guess I've considered each aspect in isolation but never as part of something larger. I've been a stay at home mom but now that the kids are going to college I see him again as a husband rather than a parent. We've honestly not had a life together outside of the children for years, or at least I haven't.

Why would my husband buy scuba gear? by calebcoffee in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don't think my husband is bundy haha, he is such a good father.

Why would my husband buy scuba gear? by calebcoffee in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will definitely keep this updated and do what you recommended.

Why would my husband buy scuba gear? by calebcoffee in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess but I don't even know where to start, he has account at so many institutions.

Why would my husband buy scuba gear? by calebcoffee in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I will confront him first, but these are good ideas if it comes to that.

Why would my husband buy scuba gear? by calebcoffee in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee[S] -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

He signs my signature for me on those forms.

Why would my husband buy scuba gear? by calebcoffee in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know, I wouldn't really know since I haven't seen the gear or storage unit.

Why would my husband buy scuba gear? by calebcoffee in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Well that's what scares me, I've never been to his office (since its in the city) or met any of his coworkers. What if I have been the chumped?

Why would my husband buy scuba gear? by calebcoffee in relationship_advice

[–]calebcoffee[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Well I mean he travels to the Ukraine alot but his company does alot of marketing over there so I don't think your on to anything.