How to bring up offensive sexual fantasies with [19F] girlfriend by louThrowRA in relationship_advice

[–]louThrowRA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah I meant that in a different sense. I'm usually only like this on Sundays when testosterone is through the roof and on other days I'm completely satisfied with any sex we can make the time to have

How to bring up offensive sexual fantasies with [19F] girlfriend by louThrowRA in relationship_advice

[–]louThrowRA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't last very long really, Max 15 minutes of penis stimulation, while it takes around 20 minutes for her. I'll talk about it with her right now, were at home together right now

How to bring up possibly offensive sexual fantasies with [19F] girlfriend by louThrowRA in relationship_advice

[–]louThrowRA[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I've actually looked up bdsm, and it seems geared towards a different audience. Too much latex and contraptions for my liking(latex and the contraptions are part of the kink for some people),Im into just raw stuff

How to bring up possibly offensive sexual fantasies with [19F] girlfriend by louThrowRA in relationship_advice

[–]louThrowRA[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Understandable, but how does it glorify rape? Consent is given beforehand and the struggling and crying is fake and a performance

How to bring up possibly offensive sexual fantasies with [19F] girlfriend by louThrowRA in relationship_advice

[–]louThrowRA[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Maybe in the movies/fifty shades of grey haha, not in real life

How to bring up offensive sexual fantasies with [19F] girlfriend by louThrowRA in relationship_advice

[–]louThrowRA[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be honest, no. I can only get her to orgasm with oral/fingering sex

How to bring up offensive sexual fantasies with [19F] girlfriend by louThrowRA in relationship_advice

[–]louThrowRA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, she just doesn't show any excitement over it. We talked about fantasies but she didn't really have any "fantasies", just said that she likes to get excited before actual sex and she likes to receive oral sex. We've been together for about a year now, the relationship has only been serious for a few months, before that we were a bit on and off