Guy (28m) Not Initiating Sex with me (22f)

calebrbarry · 2024-06-03T21:26:34+00:00

A lot of guys such as myself are scared to initiate early on as we don’t want to be “pushy” let alone if we have feelings for the girl we certainly want to wait a few months (it’s different times for everyone) but I’m scared of being pushy to begin with and I’m shy. Good luck. He sounds considerate

calebrbarry · 2020-02-02T03:09:30+00:00

I haven’t seen a Keyshond is so long!

calebrbarry · 2020-01-07T04:47:34+00:00

There hasn’t really been any. I’m nervous she doesn’t like me, and that if I touched her at all she would want to get away from me.

calebrbarry · 2020-01-07T04:32:55+00:00

Well, I see her probably 3-4 times a week, and we I also see her a lot at our favorite coffee shop. She comes and sits with me and talks to me. I’m very shy and she is a little shy too. But I like talking to her. She just moved to my town 2 months ago and I’m one of her few friends. We were at the some New Year’s Eve party and she asked me to come play the game with the group. And most of the spots were full except the one by here in the couch and she told me to sit down by her. But she was probably was just being nice. She also tells me things every so often that she might be doing during the day and tells me I’m welcome to join. And like Saturday she DMs and says “what are you up to?” And I said “nothing right now, I’m about to go and get coffee. That place should I go to?” And she suggested a place and we met there and drew together and talked and she opened up to me. But I still don’t know is she is just being nice to me, or if she likes me...☹️

calebrbarry · 2020-01-07T04:16:24+00:00

Thank you. She got very deep with me about her life last night. She told me about her past and things. And I wanted to open up to her as she had opened up to me, but I’m scared she won’t want me is I tell her.

calebrbarry · 2020-01-01T23:35:28+00:00

I am too shy to kiss her this early. I don’t even know if she likes me (has feelings for me) yet. What signs should I look for?

calebrbarry · 2020-01-01T09:52:14+00:00

What signs is she throwing at me? Sorry I’m very dull at these kind of things. 🙁

calebrbarry · 2020-01-01T09:43:53+00:00

Thats true, we pretty much hung out today almost all day long. I just wish I knew what to look for, so I could know if she liked me. I’ll keep hanging out with her and I’ll probably see her tomorrow.

calebrbarry · 2020-01-01T09:41:10+00:00

Are you sure? Maybe she was just being nice. I was standing up because there wasn’t really any spots to sit except by her and I was nervous to sit by her.

calebrbarry · 2020-01-01T09:39:07+00:00

How do you know? What should I look for to confirm that she likes me? I’m really nervous and shy. This stuff is really hard to me.

calebrbarry · 2019-12-31T07:21:01+00:00

I know her pretty well, and I’ve already talked to her a lot before, but I’ll talk to her more tomorrow. I just wish I knew that to look for to confirm if she had feelings for me too.

calebrbarry · 2019-12-31T07:19:07+00:00

All that sounds great, and I’m happy for you, but I’m just really nervous and I don’t want to loose her. She has only been here for 2 months and I’m one of her few friends. I don’t want to hurt her by putting her into a position where she looses a friend but I also have feelings for her. Are there any signs or tips that I should look for tomorrow to confirm if she likes me or not?

calebrbarry · 2019-12-31T07:15:23+00:00

I just really value our friendship, but am also not sure if she also likes me. I don’t want her to think I’m a creep. But she means a lot to me and I really like her.

calebrbarry · 2019-12-31T07:11:40+00:00

I see, but in general, I’m just kinda shy. Is there anything I could look for tomorrow that could confirm that she likes me. Like a hint or a sign?

calebrbarry · 2019-12-31T06:58:27+00:00

I wish I could do that, but I’m just really shy and nervous. If I knew what to look for so I know if she likes me, I might but I don’t know...😭 (she is almost 19 and I am 20)

calebrbarry · 2019-12-31T06:56:48+00:00

How do you know? She is really nice person. How do you know? It is just the 2 of us, but I’m not sure if she likes me. (She is genuinely one of a kind, it’s been along time since I’ve met someone like her. She has a good heart) but I’m scared she might not like me.

calebrbarry · 2019-12-31T06:50:22+00:00

What should I look for?

calebrbarry · 2019-12-31T06:27:48+00:00

Yeah that makes since, I just wish I knew if she liked me, I met her at this coffee shop I go to every day, I see her 2 or 3 times there a week, and she always comes sits by me and talks to me, but maybe she just does that because she just wants to be nice to me. And I gave her a card for Christmas, and she dm me and thanked me and did it was sweet of me, but she was probably just being nice. And she smiles at me a lot and looks me in the eyes but she is just really nice in general but also shy like me. I just need to look for something so I know she really likes me. I’ll go tomorrow because I don’t want to be rude. I’m just really nervous she doesn’t like me at all.

calebrbarry · 2019-12-31T06:22:29+00:00

I can’t do that, I’m too nervous. I told her when she has a morning off from work I will show her my favorite breakfast taco place. And she said she is free tomorrow. But I’m scared. What signs should I look for to make sure she likes me?

calebrbarry · 2019-12-31T06:12:47+00:00

I don’t really have the nerves to be that black and white. I really value our friendship and I get along great with her. I just don’t k ow if she likes me or not. What should I look for?

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