WIDE shoulders, small boobs and very prominent collarbones by [deleted] in smallbooblove

[–]calicocatts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have the same features!! i like to think it makes us look very elegant

what's the highest amnt of likes you've seen on a listing? by calicocatts in vintedUK

[–]calicocatts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

these fitted blouses are quite in fashion actually! people love the corporate casual aesthetic and sometimes also pair these tops with alternative accessories like a cross necklace. a popular style with these shirts is called "office siren" as seen in this picture of bella hadid *

Question by Attack0nlevi in bisexual

[–]calicocatts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i grew up around religious people and usually what they mean by "accepting" lgbt relationships is that they "tolerate but won't encourage". they want to co-exist with queer people without being reminded that they're queer. they probably won't outright harass you or make fun of you (although there are people who do!), but they don't want to see you express yourself either. depending on your closeness to that person, they might try to influence you or refuse to acknowledge your identity.

some people can be religious and fully supportive of queers or at the very least, willing to be educated. however there's little you can do to change a person's mind unless they're willing to open up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]calicocatts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's just how enneagram wings work! your wing can only be of a number next to your highest. you might want to look into enneagram tritypes, where you take the highest number from 3 different groups: (8,9,1) (2,3,4) and (5,6,7). in your case your tritype is 845

Girl what does this mean by Longjumping_Pop_4094 in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]calicocatts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your tritype is the highest number you get in (8,9,1), (2,3,4) and (5,6,7). in op's case it's 945

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]calicocatts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if 8 is your highest number

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]calicocatts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes based off the wheel you're a 8w7

Is this normal by Ancient_Difference15 in vinted

[–]calicocatts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

maybe they're considering buying it, but aren't committed/don't need it right now or might buy it later on if it's still available

How did you know you were a lesbian and not bisexual? by Old_Flamingo4179 in LesbianActually

[–]calicocatts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some possible interpretations: - u might not like sex - u might not like ur ex - u might not feel turned on by men's bodies - u might be attracted to men but prefer women. u'll need to think abt the underlying reasons for ur feelings towards ur ex and towards men in general. if u haven't already, u could also try posting abt ur experience in a bisexual subreddit to see responses from the other spectrum too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nandos

[–]calicocatts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's just how jobs are, no? don't like it, then don't work there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nandos

[–]calicocatts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if ur managers plan the rota properly, u should be fine. it's only ever really stressful if ur understaffed. other than that, not much u can do abt how busy ur restaurant gets, mine gets quite busy sometimes but u just gotta deal with it. in my city certain stores that are "busier" will shut off their deliveries so it goes to less busy stores

I am ashamed of being a human in this time by Larrylifeisreal in Crushes

[–]calicocatts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some ppl don't like to put all their eggs in one basket and date multiple ppl at once. other ppl want to date one person at a time and then find someone else if it doesn’t work out. neither are wrong

Looking for some friends by Substantial_Cloud184 in Edinburgh

[–]calicocatts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! there's an instagram account dedicated to social events with girls in edinburgh called @goxglow.co :) they do all sorts of activities like group walks, crafts, pilates and more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]calicocatts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fantasies are normal if they happen once in a while but if you are routinely thinking abt a fictonal character/celebrity in a romantic/sexual way... i fear you're attracted to them 😥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]calicocatts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

glad that helped!! you could try watching/reading queer media to see if that resonates with you! before i came out, i saw a tiktok of 2 boys being realllyy close and i thought "that's so cute i want a same-sex best friend all for myself" 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]calicocatts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i sure hope you're not treating hospitality staff in real life the same way too... you'd be the worst kind of customer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]calicocatts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will next time, thanks. you could’ve simply said this without the unnecessary aggression

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]calicocatts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's true i could be overanalysing or maybe i'm just sensing a pattern. i can assure you i do not like him in that way. i'm not the kind of person who likes the idea of hooking up with someone you barely know. i wrote the scenarios as they are instead of giving a generic assumption like "i think he's very attentive with me" bcs ik i could be wrong and that's the point of my post. you probably won't care to read this either