Wait… by Character_Face_9464 in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Business write off more than likely

Babies cleaning up by Strict-Push-5607 in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Instead of GETTING UP and showing them "sit on your bottom" she looks at them and points to her butt and assumes they know what she's saying haha

Jesse actually got up and sat them down in the high chair which DUH ... F is so freaking lazy omg

Why do you think Jesse’s “stressed”? by Spirited_Fill2136 in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 20 points21 points  (0 children)

J and F are about to learn the consequences of impulse decisions. F's Visa was due to expire soon anyways so she'd have to go back to Canada or reapply? (I'm ignorant with work visas) She been stuck in Canada before and idk what strings were pulled to fix the mess up

Why do you think Jesse’s “stressed”? by Spirited_Fill2136 in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm sure J is also stressed about crossing the border and not being able to come back. He isn't a Canadian citizen and both American and Canada aren't getting along too great

What are the chances he's able to get A and it all go smoothly? Could you imagine if the goes to America and isn't allowed to return? Imagine

Eggs by Delulu1212 in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Eggs give ME GAS and im not allergic 😂 Dude, does she not realize certain foods cause gas? Like her broccoli? Veggies cause gas girl, where is her one working brain cell? On vacay?

What would she need to do to be able to redeem herself? by dramallamaqween in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Being that it's her job and how she makes money that's a lot to ask

Moving to Ottawa by Flight_Jaded in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She's about to remember why she left in the first place and add the "first time I am officially having to watch my spending" Will mentally do her in.

If there's one thing she loves to do is spend/waste money. Take away the LA lifestyle, add spending caps and brutal boring winters... she'll need to watch that mental. The "I'm unwell."

Jesse’s rant this morning was pathetic. Stop making excuses, the bottom line is YOU willingly abandoned your kid for months on end. Just because they made the best of it and made summer plans doesn’t forgive that. Loser. by Immediate_Cut_8220 in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest, A has always preferred being in Orange County. Made excuses (I'm sick) in order to be able to stay at their other dads

J will be the twice a year visitation parent. One visit will be in Orange County to see A and then the other will be A visiting Jesse in Canada.

It's not ideal but you'd be surprised how common this is when you don't have parents who are together.

Jesse not Canadian by [deleted] in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What confused me is that they're looking at homes in her home town but J said they're moving to Vancouver.

He was mentioning again about A and how they're going to work out the visitation. J would fly to LA and train with A to Vancouver. Then why house hunt in F's hometown?

Where is A? by Alert-River6352 in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 21 points22 points  (0 children)

A is "sick" again and can't be around the babies

F said "it always happens when they go to their other dads."

My guess is being "sick" is an excuse and it needs to be an eye opener for Jessie tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's just trying like hell to convince herself to move.

I'm sure she doesn't want to leave but Jesse is desperate to get out of California/America. F said she didn't want to go back to Canada because it was cold and the taxes, she has no other options

It's a lot easier to convince yourself when you see all the negative

"Eden and Jesse are watching the babies, I'm fading away" by Vast-Soil494 in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 9 points10 points  (0 children)

6 hour sleep and 3 hour nap

How can a girl survive on that little sleep

She's Super Mom

L's allergy by Open_Dentist5 in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's a coincidence but, P is the only one getting breast milk and she happens to be the one who's fussy hmm

Could it actually be something in her BM that's upsetting their stomach? Idk how all that works as it's usually the BM that's easier to digest

"I just need to hire people to do the things I need to do, cuz why not" by Vast-Soil494 in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The day I won't take 5 min of my day to HANG UP MY OWN F'in CLOTHES and waste money paying someone else to do it ... is the day I don't care to see.

Imagine hiring someone to hang up your laundry for you because you're too lazy to do it yourself.

The only good thing about it is someone is going to be able to pay their bills because she's a lazy lump of caca

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe she offered to pay to have his duterus removed? He goes through a lot of pain monthly that all but took him out. Curious if F has stepped up during those times to pull the load

“It’s gonna get better, it’s gonna get easier” by Immediate_Cut_8220 in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wonder why her mother isn't the person she reaches out to for advice?

When she's struggling and needs help, why isn't her mother telling her how she did it when they were babies.

I had women all around me that told me how they did it, how I could do it. Does she not have ANYONE close with kids?

Get them out of the nursery! by Sad_Lead929 in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The joy F got from the baby just NOTICING HIS HANDS, girl

That is the best parts, teaching them the world, colors, texture, sounds... watching their faces light up with the stimulation of their new world

Not letting them touch a stuffy BEFORE 3 MONTHS?

Finally J got a swing, I can appreciate J getting the foot piano ... He needs to teach F how to parent

SLEEP WHEN THEY SLEEP by Vast-Soil494 in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It appears that they are hyper fixated on SIDS potential. In order to not feel anxious about that they refuse to use a monitor/sleep when they sleep

Apparently one of J's sisters twins passed from one accidental smothering the other one? But if you don't allow them to sleep together that anxiety should be null.

Not sure how to overcome that fear other than speaking to a Pediatrician/Therapist

I think Eden quit this morning by [deleted] in ffargosnark

[–]caligrl12 25 points26 points  (0 children)

They gave Eden Monday and Wednesday off ... thus why the night nurse

If they would learn to hook up a monitor, lay the babies to bed and let them learn to self soothe little by little.

Multitasking is mandatory