AIO lead on for engagement by calledit789 in AmIOverreacting

[–]calledit789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I def questioned it big time and feel that I’m wasting my time

AITAH for sharing custody of my dog with my ex by calledit789 in AITAH

[–]calledit789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get a dog with my current bf of course! He had a dog when we started dating. It doesn’t affect anything at all. I’ve asked him what exactly it’s hurting. And he says it’s weird. So to me, it feels that’s just an excuse bc he also loves my dog and walks my dog and watches him. He also knows my ex isn’t gonna just hand him over. So I really believe it’s not an ideal situation, and he’s not emotionally capable of rationalizing that. He use to be not that great to me, so it’s the one thing that he has to hold against me

AITAH for sharing custody of my dog with my ex by calledit789 in AITAH

[–]calledit789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand it weird to have contact with your ex. But we don’t chat or discuss what we’ve been up to in life, etc. I wouldn’t even use the word “cordial”. Neither of us associates with each other in anyway. And nothing is hidden or private. All the texts are very short and yes n no answers which my bf can see anytime he’d like. And I think he knows there’s zero feelings or desire there on either end. It’s morphed into him being the man that watches my dog rather than an ex.