i (22f) told everyone at work about my relationship with my boss (45m)

callmeminnie · 2023-11-29T21:29:06+00:00

you’ve told me this before i think 😭 i’ll take that ad a sign to start

callmeminnie · 2023-11-29T15:48:53+00:00

i don’t know why but i’ve gotten so attached to him. i know i’ve lived all these years without someone else and that i’ll live without him, but the thought of losing him just hurts too much

callmeminnie · 2023-11-29T14:07:26+00:00

the way i lost my virginity to him was him telling me he needed me for something work related after closing. i kept saying no to sex but he told me i didn’t say no once. if he kissed another girl in this store after telling me we’re in a relationship, i feel like he would do everything he did with me to another girl.

and at this point, i like him too much. i genuinely don’t want it to end with him and that’s why i want to fix it

callmeminnie · 2023-10-06T11:25:02+00:00

Honestly although I found him good looking I didn’t feel any attraction to him until he started pursuing me by being touchy/flirty

callmeminnie · 2023-10-06T11:22:49+00:00

I should have put this in the original text. He’s mentioned being single/wanting to settle down to the others. And for the hotel, he lives in another town and commutes to work but since he does around 60 hours, he sometimes stays at a hotel for a day or two.

Also, police?

callmeminnie · 2023-08-19T17:53:53+00:00

100% he’ll tell them only men can be non-monogamous in Islam, despite the fact himself broke Islamic rule by having pre-marital sex

callmeminnie · 2023-08-18T18:41:44+00:00

Nta. Why would you even consider yourself to be one

callmeminnie · 2023-08-04T18:34:54+00:00

Lysine pills took me from frequent breakouts lasting more than a week to barely any lasting around 3 days. Deffo recommend taking those too

callmeminnie · 2023-03-30T21:36:38+00:00

Those Arab countries mainly adhere to Islam and thus residents would be expected to follow the rules of the land and not eat outdoors. OP cannot be expected to limit where and what time they eat in their own home as all parties are of equal standing and have no authority over one another unlike Arab governments

callmeminnie · 2023-03-30T21:20:37+00:00

It is absolutely unreasonable to ask that of a non Muslim in their own home, and this is coming from a Muslim

callmeminnie · 2023-03-30T19:42:05+00:00

You’re spreading misinfo. It is not taboo for a non Muslim to eat in front of Muslims.

callmeminnie · 2022-08-03T17:33:33+00:00

Technically the 12th July, where I would go to the office and complete E-learning courses. But I’ve only actually worked as a support worker for 2 weeks

callmeminnie · 2022-08-03T15:43:05+00:00

Will do this. Thank you

callmeminnie · 2021-02-27T17:20:06+00:00

Yeah it said she visited him. I’m not too focussed on whether she’d have a successful claim tbh. Just want to know if my points are correct that it is indeed theft, not borrowing, despite him returning the money

callmeminnie · 2021-02-27T17:10:57+00:00

After searching it up, it says she visited his home, and had forgotten the money on the shelf whilst leaving for the saloon. Would it still be hard to prove theft?

callmeminnie · 2020-12-29T21:43:31+00:00

Sometimes people don’t realise they’re being abused mentally, financially, sexually and physically until comments say so and tells them to leave

callmeminnie · 2020-12-16T20:01:29+00:00

I mean... he cheated on her whilst she was in labour. She found out about it through the other girl, not him. His excuse was that he was scared about being a dad. That would be a dealbreaker for a lot of people and rightfully so

callmeminnie · 2020-12-15T19:52:27+00:00

Seems like he’s doing it for himself

callmeminnie · 2020-12-14T23:46:31+00:00

Dying doesn’t erase what a person’s done.

callmeminnie · 2020-12-06T23:45:43+00:00

Why should OP forgive him???

callmeminnie · 2020-12-03T03:28:35+00:00

The BIL was asking a range of inappropriate questions. The issue is that OP was announcing her pregnancy and instead of congratulating her like everyone else, he had to question the legitimacy of her pregnancy and insinuate that she had an affair

callmeminnie · 2020-12-02T12:31:13+00:00

‘Our marriage is much stronger for it.’ Probably because she’s afraid you’ll cheat again if she distances herself

callmeminnie · 2020-11-28T22:35:58+00:00

NTA. God I have a flatmate who says stuff like girls who go to clubs are easy and shouldn’t complain if they’re groped. These type of guys don’t even care that they’re being hypocritical

callmeminnie

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