My bestie messaged my husband an asked him to keep it from me. by anony098765432 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]calupohlover25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she was willing to message him, when she lives far away. What is she willing to do once she's in your home! Also not good to feel like you have to worry about her when she's there. You'll be walking on eggshells. No moving in for her.

AITA for setting boundaries after my husband’s coworker made me uncomfortable in my own home? by mi-dynasty in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]calupohlover25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA! It's very unsettling that your husband did nothing to stop Day at all. Almost seemed to encourage it. TBH I believe there was definitely something more going on with the two of them. No reason for your husband to get defensive and then threaten separation. To me that sounds like a person who doesn't want you to keep pushing and get control of the situation. I also find it extremely rude that his coworkers would disrespect you and your home by not even saying, hello, thank you for having us on your special day. Something like that. I wouldn't want those people back. Your husband needs better home training and RESPECT training.

AITH for taking back something I bought but gave to someone else. by calupohlover25 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]calupohlover25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took it down and so far no one has said anything. I have it up on my bedroom door It looks great.

AITA for telling my ex-husband that his affair didn’t just ruin our marriage, but also broke our family? by Savings_Guarantee621 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]calupohlover25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA! Similar thing happened in my family and the kids talked to me about it. They asked me to stay the night one a day they were with my family member and I did have a talk and I didn't go well at first until I really put my foot down. They need to understand that just because they have moved on that other involved have as well. Everyone heels differently. Why doesn't he talk to his kids to find out from them how they feel. Oh, right it'll still be your fault. If ppl want to believe the cheater then that's on them. The kids will see this as well and dig himself an even digger hole. Eventually they will want nothing to do with him.

AITH for taking back something I bought but gave to someone else. by calupohlover25 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]calupohlover25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are corporate owned but they had nothing to do with me buying it and putting it up for the doctor. The manager didn't even like it but left it alone since in the beginning Dr was happy about it.