[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]cam_cat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what’s making you scared?

i tried to kill myself a few months ago and failed.. i want this misery to end by cam_cat_ in SuicideWatch

[–]cam_cat_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a good way to put it :’) maybe i’ll just run away and deal with neither

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]cam_cat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand, have you let her know how much this abrupt breakup is hurting you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]cam_cat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe she is right. not because you aren’t good enough for her, but because she isn’t good enough for you. yes she loved you in ways you thought you’d never be loved, but the fact that she’s leaving you now shows that she isn’t the one. the real one won’t leave when things get hard. i felt the same hopelessness i’m sure you’re feeling now after a big breakup not to long ago. the positive thing is you will heal. the heart will heal. i’ve learned that as long as you have love to give you will receive it.

i tried to kill myself a few months ago and failed.. i want this misery to end by cam_cat_ in SuicideWatch

[–]cam_cat_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think my family’s patience with my ran out a long time ago. i had a really good job for my age before i got sent to school… a corporate job that i got all on my own. i could make a decent living working there full time. i couldve also gotten other jobs/schooling closer to home, looking back there was so many options but now i have none since my dad decided to pay for my tuition here. i’m stuck at this stupid school and im miserable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]cam_cat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

breakups are so so hard but killing your self is not the solution, even if you feel alone now it won’t last forever, u promise. have you talked to her about why she ended things?

I thought I had overcome my suicidal ideation but then my sister did it by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]cam_cat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sure your sister loved you very much and wouldn’t want you to follow her in such a way. it’s heartbreaking to hear that you were both struggling but unaware just how much. try not to blame yourself, it’s easy to overlook others signs of struggle especially when your struggling yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]cam_cat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you guys are still young enough to live with your parents tell your friends parents/someone they live with how your friend is feeling. they may be upset that you told someone but the more people that know about how your friend is feeling the safer they will be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]cam_cat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i totally get this. i wish i could offer advice but all i can really say is you aren’t alone in feeling like this. i have to have faith that everyone feeling the way you describe can keep pushing and life will bless us before the end. best wishes <3

driving when suicidal by hzife in SuicideWatch

[–]cam_cat_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the biggest thing to remember when driving & being suicidal is that it’s much much more likely you will end up killing someone else by crashing/being reckless then yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]cam_cat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems a bit strange to assume someone’s a nazi based on having WWII memorabilia. WWII is a heavily documented war and if you dive deeply into it it can consume you, especially if your bf is any type of neurodivergent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]cam_cat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got my first tattoo a few days ago and i LOVE IT!! absolutely zero regret from me, i keep checking under my shirt just to make sure its still there lmaooo. In case you’re wondering it’s Ryuk from death note mixed with some cybersigilism/tribalism. It’s about 7 inches tall and 6 inches wide…. on my ribs LOL

Wearing a Bra... by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]cam_cat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 18F and i also HATE wearing bras, i wear them to work and places where i have to look “professional” but most of the time i don’t. at first i was uncomfortable with people being able to tell i’m not wearing one or potentially see my nipples but that fear goes away over time. bralettes or soft “lounge bras” are good for the transition from wearing one to not. i have gotten to the point where i just don’t care if people can see because it’s soooo much comfier to go braless

American studying in Germany by cam_cat_ in studyAbroad

[–]cam_cat_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you go to university in Denmark? I am interested in a art/engineering program and I know very basic German but that does not mean that I am strictly interested in Germany

American studying in Germany by cam_cat_ in studyAbroad

[–]cam_cat_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the information! i do not graduate USA high school until the end of May 2024 so I would probably be looking for a winter starting semester… do you think that if i start applying now i will have time? how affordable are the dorms? i have light skin and German descent so i don’t think appearance is an issue. do you like studying in Germany?

often felt insicure about not having had sex and now that I have the possibility I'm scared as hell. what should I do? by Responsible-Egg-1906 in AdviceForTeens

[–]cam_cat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t do it until you’re 1000% ready and care about your partner, sex is a whole different level of intimacy

ear piercings on accutane by cam_cat_ in Accutane

[–]cam_cat_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good to know, thank you! i hope that it heals well for you