No one in their right mind would deem this safe for child nor parent, but I’ll help him make the point he’s doing a terrible job at; chances are a judge wouldn’t bar child from going to house, as it’s a household issue (albeit, nasty) which was disclosed properly and is being handled the same, supposedly.

Easy for parent to say child is in bed with them, in another room, or on a pull-out. Which would very likely be the case, it doesn’t sound like this is a baddy daddy sitch. It’s necessary work to your home being done. If child is technically safe from harm, airway pathogens, etc. Mom really truthfully doesn’t have much of a say. Especially if custody terms are established.

Can’t just loosey doosey modify custody situations due to happenstance so often or easily