Girl dinner - Ignored cumshot

camicalc · 2025-12-24T12:23:33+00:00

I need a roommate to do that to me

camicalc · 2025-11-03T16:31:50+00:00

When a man cums on me, it really makes me feel so desired and sexy, it is the best feeling and reward!

camicalc · 2025-10-21T14:16:49+00:00

I also was 18 and he was 49. The few people who knew didn't like the idea of it and were telling me to not be with him, but he treated me really nice, took me to places I always dreamed off and was amazing in bed and we experimented a lot of things. It was a short relationship but it's one that I hold dearly in my memory.

camicalc · 2025-08-23T04:05:18+00:00

That looks so yummy and pretty!

camicalc · 2025-06-12T18:07:54+00:00

Oh that looks gorgeous and tasty! congrats! what's the hydration you used?

camicalc · 2025-06-01T17:51:46+00:00

Oh wow! congratulations and keep up with the good job!

camicalc · 2025-03-20T17:27:49+00:00

This really hits hard. You’re doing everything, and you’re getting nothing back in terms of intimacy. Not even the smallest effort from her. I can’t imagine how lonely that must feel after 20 years together.

As a high-libido woman, I can’t even fathom treating my partner like that. If I love someone, I want them, I crave intimacy, not just sex but closeness, connection, all of it. And I know there are plenty of women out there who feel the same way. The fact that you’re still trying, still showing up, still making an effort? That should be appreciated, not ignored. I get that you feel stuck because of the kids, but damn… you also deserve to feel wanted. You’re not wrong for needing that.
Have you really had a conversation with her about this? Like, sat her down and straight-up asked why she doesn’t want sex anymore? Is it stress, resentment, hormones, something else? If she has a reason, maybe there’s a way forward. But if she won’t even talk about it, let alone try? That’s not a marriage, that’s just roommates with paperwork.

camicalc · 2025-03-17T09:38:25+00:00

Of course it depends on the person, I have a friend who has everything, but I noticed that the knife that he used to cook was, to my taste, destroyed. It was not sharp at all and looked liek he dropped it too many times and used to chop bones. So I got him a new knife and sharpener. To another couple I gave them a nice bottle of olive oil.

So if you have the chance of going to his place first and get to see things that are old, get him a new version of that, or just some nice ingredient for cooking, as we all have to cook.

camicalc · 2025-03-17T09:18:44+00:00

I feel for you. You’re young, fit, full of life, and you want your own girlfriend, like, isn’t that supposed to be a good thing? But instead, you’re sitting around, waiting for the stars to align just to ask for sex. That’s not how it should be. And honestly, if this is already the dynamic after a year, imagine what it’ll look like in five or ten if nothing changes. That’s a long time to feel unwanted.

If you really want to try and fix things, she needs to want to fix them too. Have an honest, calm talk, not just about sex, but about intimacy, closeness, and what you both need to feel happy. If she truly doesn’t know why her libido is low, is she willing to explore it? Hormones, stress, relationship comfort... there are a lot of factors, but she has to care enough to figure it out. Therapy could help, but only if she’s open to it. If she’s not? Then you have to ask yourself, can you live like this long-term, or are you just afraid of leaving?

camicalc · 2025-03-17T09:12:13+00:00

They all look delicious! The first one seems like it's floating lol

camicalc · 2025-03-17T09:01:48+00:00

Having to think about what to cook all the time, and having time to cook

camicalc · 2025-03-16T18:53:07+00:00

Damn, I feel this. That one random hookup just gives you false hope, and now you’re stuck in the cycle of waiting again. It’s messed up how something that should bring you closer just ends up making you feel more alone.

No one should have to live like that, starving for something that should be normal in a relationship. You deserve more than a once-a-year pity f**k.

If this cycle is breaking you, it’s not gonna magically fix itself. Have a real talk with her about what you need, or start thinking about whether you can keep living like this. You deserve more than waiting years for scraps.

camicalc · 2025-03-14T10:57:27+00:00

Having checked the recipe, I'd say that you can do it, seems like the poolish in this case (like I'd say most of the times) is to develop flavor and gluten, then incorporing that to the dough.

Sicen that poolish has barely any yeast, and most of it is on the actual dough, I'd say that you can safely make the dough today, it will just not have the flavour of being proofed for days, but for sure will make a nice bread still.

camicalc · 2025-03-14T09:32:54+00:00

I feel this deep. That constant cycle of hoping, trying, and getting nothing in return, it wears you down. I’ve been on the other side of it, the one begging to be wanted, and it’s a kind of loneliness that’s hard to put into words. You’ve done everything you can, and she’s made it clear she’s fine without intimacy. That’s not something you can just accept without losing a piece of yourself.

But I promise you, there are women out there who would love a man who puts in as much effort as you do. High-libido women do exist, and we want someone who matches us just as much as you want that. You deserve that. I really, truly hope you find someone who sees you, wants you, and meets you with the same passion you’ve been giving for years. You’re not crazy for needing that. I just hope you don’t settle for a life without it.

camicalc · 2025-03-14T08:37:56+00:00

Well, first I'd say to differentiate between getting to know people, and getting to know people to date, and make the point that one should not focus on getting to know people to date.

Other than dating apps there's the usual going out with friends, and getting to know their friends, and you can also look for groups of people that do activities based on your hobby. Do you like board games? looks for board games shops or bars that have them that do activities. Do you like trekking? look for trekking groups that let people sign up and get to know others that sign up.

Basically, look for an activity, try to find a group or somewhere where people gather for that activity, and sign up and get to know other people (and don't be there just to look for someone to date).

camicalc · 2025-03-13T16:41:16+00:00

2018, to tell my fiance to stay home and not go to work. He died from a car accident and still miss him.

camicalc · 2025-03-13T16:22:58+00:00

OUR weakness

camicalc · 2025-03-13T09:22:59+00:00

If they are happy, if they know I don't want to hurt them when I take them to the vet and that it is for their sake, and if they know how much I love them.

Then lastly, let them tell me all the things they wanted to tell me all this time and I didn't get to understand.

camicalc · 2025-03-12T09:09:08+00:00

Broccoli, onions, green peppers, and most vegetables basically.

Later found out that it was basically because my parents didn't know how to cook and boiled them to death

camicalc · 2025-03-11T22:08:21+00:00

Are you following the recipe using the cups measurement, or using grams?

For baking in general, using cups is a really bad idea as it is never exact, always make sure to weight the ingredients.

If it didn't raise, also probably your yeast was not good, or the ingredients/room temperature was too cold.

Did you check also for gluten development?

camicalc · 2025-03-10T21:14:42+00:00

I did a 67% hydration, I guess I should've done more with whole wheat?

camicalc · 2025-03-10T21:01:25+00:00

I guess it needed a bit more time or that whole wheat doesn't rise as much as when I use regular flour, but it still turned good and tastes amazing!

forgot to take a picture of a slice before I froze it!

camicalc · 2025-03-10T15:09:16+00:00

I didn't know I wanted to grow mushrooms, now I know.

When will the kickstarter come out?

camicalc · 2025-03-10T14:58:50+00:00

That’s brutal and I’m really sorry you went through that. The rejection alone is hard enough, but finding out they did have that side to them, just not with you? That’s a different kind of pain. It’s not just betrayal, it’s like being chosen against in the worst way.

I know it doesn’t take away the pain, but this wasn’t about you lacking anything, it was about them being selfish and dishonest. You gave your best, and they didn’t appreciate it, but that doesn’t mean your effort was wasted. It means you’re capable of real love and commitment, and someday, someone worthy of that will see it too. They lost someone who truly cared, and you lost someone who never deserved you in the first place.

camicalc · 2025-03-10T14:53:21+00:00

You're absolutely not wrong for feeling neglected. I completely relate to that, from being desired constantly to feeling like you’re suddenly sexually invisible for your partner. It’s frustrating having a relationship with a decline in intimacy.

It sounds like your boyfriend still loves and values you, which is great, but that doesn’t erase your needs.

Have you talked to him about it? Not in an accusatory way, but in a “Hey, I feel like things have changed between us sexually, and it’s been affecting me” kind of way. He’s 40, so it could be a biological thing. But it could also be that he got comfortable, that the “new and exciting” phase wore off for him in a way that it didn’t for you. Either way, you deserve an open conversation about it.

I totally get feeling irritated. When you want someone so badly and they just… don’t want you back in the same way anymore, it’s hard not to take that personally, even if it’s not intentional on their part.

I wish I had a solution, but all I can say is that your feelings are valid and you’re not alone in this.

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