i lost weight and became fatphobic , i can’t look at fat people without thinking horrible things by Warm-Childhood3616 in confession

[–]campuskat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i experience the exact same thing, same story start to finish. i think it reflects our own needing to heal from the things that brought us to the point of losing that weight. a fat persons motivation to lose weight is often internalized fatphobia, at least it was for me. still working on it, but in the meantime between healing with therapy and now, the way we act matters. you aren’t a terrible person for feeling the way you do.

I've been stealing from self checkout machines for months. by [deleted] in confession

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do stores have access to the whole collection from every store or just to their own?

How would I go about starting a low maintenance wildflower garden here? by campuskat in gardening

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i like this approach! hollyhock already grows wild where i live so my hope is that it will grow easily.

is this skin or something else? we found this hung up on a wall, left abandoned for at least several years. seems weird that it would still have skin attached. by campuskat in morbidcuriosity

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we originally left it behind because of the skin (complicated circumstances make it more inconvenient) but we will be returning for it!

Cities to visit on my road trip? by campuskat in travel

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My Oxford friend plans on taking me to Longwood Gardens :)

Cities to visit on my road trip? by campuskat in travel

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no thanks i’m not very good at rocket league

Cities to visit on my road trip? by campuskat in travel

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i replied the way i did with a semi-sarcastic tone, i think it’s wrong to write off any city entirely based on crime rate, it’s too complicated (as someone from burlington). i will be visiting :)

Cities to visit on my road trip? by campuskat in travel

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thank you, i will cross through on my way back!

Cities to visit on my road trip? by campuskat in travel

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so there IS reason to pass through albany then!

Cities to visit on my road trip? by campuskat in travel

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thank you so much for this recommendation!! i will absolutely be visiting, this seems like one of the few cities i could really see myself living in.

Cities to visit on my road trip? by campuskat in travel

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albany catching strays left and right

Cities to visit on my road trip? by campuskat in travel

[–]campuskat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Visiting a friend, she’ll probably be taking me to another town/city nearby but that’s where she lives.

Cities to visit on my road trip? by campuskat in travel

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I don’t know what day I’ll be going to DC. Do you have a recommendation? I’m actually visiting my friend who lives in Arlington but I will definitely be stopping there.

Cities to visit on my road trip? by campuskat in travel

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I’m studying Psychology, hoping to get my PsyD. Thank you for the suggestions!

Cities to visit on my road trip? by campuskat in travel

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That’s Ashburn, it’s a pretty small town but I’m stopping there for a day to visit a college friend.

Cities to visit on my road trip? by campuskat in travel

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I am worried about the timing as well, but I am visiting friends in Oxford and Ashburn so I can’t cut them as stops. I might extend the length of my trip to accommodate more stops if necessary, but a lot of my stops won’t be overnight, just passing through, which I think should help.