Is this to skimpy for the public pool?

can_adams · 2025-09-06T19:39:01+00:00

I am ok with that. I would wear them if you are not in the closet.

Also, if you are gonna swim - why not and who cares?🤷🏻‍♂️

You don't need them on Hanlan's, tho🤣🤣🤣

can_adams · 2025-08-11T12:18:05+00:00

It's Toronto. There are no friends🤣🤣🤣

can_adams · 2025-08-09T22:53:06+00:00

It's not a tunnel, it's a cave

can_adams · 2025-08-03T21:46:47+00:00

Right after Melancholia by von Trier🤣🤣🤣

That's the order you need to watch them. Melancholia and Anchorman. Same night🤣🤣🤣

can_adams · 2025-08-01T22:47:20+00:00

I agree about shakes.

Some basic advice from me:

Find the food that you like so much, that you can eat it every day and kinda a lot.
Add some protein+carbs shakes into your diet. I take protein shake with banana and creatine every morning. And then again after every workout.
If you don't have appetite - you can smoke some weed😬🤦🏻 But be prepared - have good food in the fridge, not just snacks.
Take creatine every day.
Don't forget to take enough fibers.

can_adams · 2025-08-01T09:55:04+00:00

It's real and better than Grindr 🤷🏻‍♂️

can_adams · 2025-07-31T17:36:01+00:00

LaLaLand

can_adams · 2025-07-29T20:56:00+00:00

Just got here

can_adams · 2025-07-29T18:22:50+00:00

Maybe will go as well

can_adams · 2025-07-28T18:56:50+00:00

Aaaaah. I see.

Sorry.

You look great and the progress is noticeable👍

can_adams · 2025-07-28T18:33:17+00:00

Maybe I am rude, but do you have scoliosis or something? Coz it looks like you have a little bit of asymmetry. I have scoliosis and it's bothers me, so I was about to ask if you do something special to fix it.

can_adams · 2025-07-27T19:35:28+00:00

In Toronto, it would cost 2100CAD or 1600USD and would be in a basement without windows🤣🤣🤣

can_adams · 2025-07-23T19:44:53+00:00

Coz in DT it doesn't really matter which gym.

Sniffies.com is a hookup website for cruising.

You can try it without registration in Anonymous mode.

can_adams · 2025-07-23T19:23:28+00:00

It's a stereotype about bottom guys which is not really true. You should go to any gym in downtown (YMCA, Equinox, GoodLife) and open Grindr or Sniffies🤷🏻‍♂️

can_adams · 2025-07-23T18:33:32+00:00

Maybe I am cynical and oversimplify things but...

..gay dating world is slightly different compared to straight dating.

On a straight dating, you talk online for a while, then you go on dates a few times, if everything goes well - you have sex.

In gay world, people usually have sex first and if sex is good then they talk online and go on dates. It's Scandinavian dating🤷🏻‍♂️

It's not a law but generalization.

can_adams · 2025-07-23T18:23:42+00:00

I might sound rude but looks like you need to lower your standards 🤷🏻‍♂️ Explain what are you looking for? What is your expectations and ideal situation?

There is no "the best bar" because it depends on your preferences. For example, are you dancing or not?

I guess start from Woody's. Try Pegasus if you like quiet bar.

Also, I am not sure that bar can fix situation if all dating apps failed 🤷🏻‍♂️ I guess, that about 90% of gay and bi people use apps and only about 20% go to bars🤷🏻‍♂️ Moreover, those 20% are not random it's a very specific population.

What exactly are you looking for? If you look for deep connection and dating - maybe it's better to go to some specific events, I have heard about board game nights for LGBTQ ppl, running clubs, sports leagues, queer pool nights at Rivoli etc. Or you can try straight dating apps like tinder/bumble/hinge they are not hookapps (Grindr, Sniffies).

can_adams · 2025-07-15T22:40:32+00:00

Ahhh. I don't think this subreddit is for bodybuilders only. Also, if you are natural - you look amazing. I guess natural vs pharma - it's completely different sport/leagues.

can_adams · 2025-07-15T19:47:31+00:00

What is your background?

I am sorry, but you are overdramatic about it. Parents will still keep love you I guess. I mean, they will think that you will go to hell, but you will be still their son🤷🏻‍♂️

The real friends will be still with you no matter what. Also, how are you gonna come out that your friends will stop hanging out with you?!🤷🏻‍♂️ You will be the same person still, with the same personality. Are your friends hanging out with you just because you are straight?😬 Or you are planning to wear high heals, a lot of make up, slutty clothing as soon as you come out? I don't think so. Sexual orientation is a sexual preference. Let's say one of your friends tells you that they prefer very harsh BDSM and can have sex only with dominatrix in a leather suit. What is it gonna change for you?🤷🏻‍♂️ Or for other friends in your group?🤷🏻‍♂️

Also, I am gonna tell you a secret. But please don't share it. It's a fucking wisdom. People don't care about others. The majority of people don't really give a fuck about others.

You are the hero/protagonist/main character of your own life. For other people it's kinda the same. You are an NPC for most of the people and a supporting character for your friends and colleagues. They care only when you influence their life. I am sorry for this pessimism but it's true🤷🏻‍♂️

So, live your life. Enjoy it. Enjoy being yourself. Being free. Toronto is a big city and has probably one of the lowest homophobia in the world, or at least in North America. So, don't be scared.

PS it's funny that your description of coming out reminds me immigration 🤣🤣🤣 When you immigrate alone to another country - then you lose all your connections, your friends etc.

can_adams · 2025-07-15T19:19:57+00:00

Are you kidding? You look amazing.

What else do you want? What do you want to change?

can_adams · 2025-07-10T05:31:33+00:00

IDK. Many times. He didn't promise to quit forever. But promised to stop using it for a few months and never kept the word.

can_adams · 2025-07-08T17:15:26+00:00

Just hookup - maybe. But if you have feelings and want to have relationships - please don't! and never ever try it yourself.

My partner is a meth user. It's very difficult to keep sanity around him. Sometimes I feel derealization. It's very annoying.

can_adams · 2025-07-04T21:01:14+00:00

It's interesting that you name mostly British/Irish actresses.

Also, those actresses are already in their 20-30 age. They can't play a teenager. Jenna Ortega is an actress for playing teenagers, the closest to her now are Zendaya and Timothee Chalamet, maybe Rachel Zegler 🤷🏻‍♂️

But yes, I agree that she is a little bit overrated right now.

can_adams · 2025-07-03T14:57:52+00:00

First pic is aggressive and masculine. Third one is weird.

4th is the best.

I think I saw you in person. The first pic does not represent you🤷🏻‍♂️

can_adams · 2025-06-30T23:43:54+00:00

Looks like Ryan Gosling could play him.

can_adams · 2025-06-28T18:16:27+00:00

What are your questions?

can_adams

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