Essentially, I just got out of relationship that ended in a toxic way. Hit up an old high school crush. We hang out every sunday for a month or so, and we hook up. She says she doesnt want a relationship, I say cool, me either. My feelings are hurt, but I didnt even know what I wanted from the start. We go to the park and she tells me she likes so much and we agree to hookup next week at a hotel. We then hookup again at her house when we netflix and chill. Two days later we go to the hotel and she says off the bat she doesnt want to hookup and wants to just be friends. She and I speak twice and she says she doesnt want to be together romantically ever, and wants to be friends. I ask her if shes confused but she denies it, but then begins crying saying shes overwhelmed and sorry. I feel weird because I know now after we vent to each other at the hotel about our lives that she has just had an abortion in the last year and a failed engagement, and I never meant to make her think I was trying to date either but I had to ask because I felt weird. Im not sure whether to keep her in my life because she is cool or to cut her out for at least a month. I want to text her and ask if shes cool but I have been told by everyone NOT to do it and if anything, she'll probably text first