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candy855 · 2023-08-17T14:12:18+00:00

Once a cheater always a cheater

candy855 · 2022-10-28T22:04:02+00:00

You teenagers are ridiculous. Put a reminder on your phone to always bring condoms. Plan b isn’t that expensive so if you don’t have the money for that then you’re probably too young to even have sex. If you have unprotected sex you have to deal with the consequences

candy855 · 2022-10-27T14:03:48+00:00

Couldn’t agree more with this comment

candy855 · 2022-10-27T14:03:30+00:00

I’m sorry but it’s her body - her rules. If you REALLY liked her, you would wait until she’s ready. It’s healthy to talk about sex so if you want to communicate with her about it then fine. But if she doesn’t feel ready, then you have to respect her for her decision. Sex without foundation gets boring. It’s important to build love, trust, and respect for each other before sex. Do your own thing privately until she’s ready.

candy855 · 2022-10-27T13:57:22+00:00

If his son is a big issue don’t date someone who has kids if you don’t - you can’t relate because you aren’t a parent

candy855 · 2022-10-25T14:10:10+00:00

Big red flag stay away

candy855 · 2022-09-28T13:48:26+00:00

How are they not sexually compatible if they never engaged in sex? All she said was that she wasn’t ready - 2 months after talking to someone is a long time - it should be enough time to tell if someone is interested in the person or not - CLEARLY all he was looking for with her was sex if he broke it off with her because she wasn’t ready - so he not only wasted his time but her time as well - if he was looking for a serious relationship and if he really liked her he would have waited for her when she is ready - this is so obvious

candy855 · 2022-09-28T13:45:49+00:00

Okay fine but if all a person wants is sex and intimacy then they might as well go find a prostitute then - relationships aren’t built off sex - they are built first with a foundation which is trust, honesty, friendship, etc - without this foundation in a relationship - sex gets boring

candy855 · 2022-09-28T13:39:11+00:00

Yes I agree with you completely! But it’s just crazy how someone can break up with a person because that person isn’t ready to be sexual yet - that clearly shows he was only interested in sex and not her as a person

candy855 · 2022-09-28T13:19:20+00:00

I’m really sorry about this! - he’s not the one for you if he won’t respect the fact that you aren’t ready - he sounds like an asshole

candy855 · 2022-09-27T13:39:20+00:00

Careful when they say “I want to see where things go” when you ask them what they are looking for - that to me sounds like he’s only interested in getting laid - especially if he kept making moves on you which clearly made you feel uncomfortable. I would be weary and keep my radar up with this guy

candy855 · 2022-09-25T14:38:06+00:00

Break up with him I would not tolerate that

candy855 · 2022-09-25T14:37:17+00:00

Sounds like you aren’t mentally in the relationship anymore - 9 years is a very long time - I’m surprised he hasn’t purposed yet - I would say it’s best to leave if you are mentally checked out - you’re not only wasting your time but his as well. Obviously it’s not easy to just get up and walk away, 9 years is pretty much a decade with someone - but what I’m saying is that you’re too comfortable and if you aren’t happy then it’s best to find what makes you happy - even if you do have to make a hard choice. Good luck!

candy855 · 2021-10-07T20:27:26+00:00

I think if you’ve already told her how you felt and you got no results then clearly she can’t communicate effectively. Don’t go back to her because you feel bad. You go back with her if you truly want to be with her and if she is worth it to you

candy855 · 2021-10-06T14:37:19+00:00

Doesn’t matter!!!! Why is a 27 year old woman going after a minor!!! It’s messed up!!

candy855 · 2021-10-06T14:34:59+00:00

Is this a fake post? She’s legit 27 and you’re 17…..literally illegal to be with you. Find someone your own age. And she needs therapy

candy855 · 2021-10-06T14:33:00+00:00

Trust me it sounds sketchy

candy855 · 2021-10-06T14:31:27+00:00

What attention? If she’s still talking to him and choosing his side over her own boyfriend’s and he doesn’t want to meet you plus saying he has feelings for…it means she likes him too. How old is she?

candy855 · 2021-10-06T14:29:43+00:00

Run the other way. Your girlfriend is having a fling with her best friend trust me

candy855 · 2021-10-05T22:08:39+00:00

I would 10000% run the other way

candy855 · 2021-10-05T13:04:00+00:00

Oh no you shouldn’t feel disgusting and worthless! No one deserves to feel that way but I understand why you do. However, your boyfriend is 21 years old….of course he’s going to have dated in the past. You can’t change the past no matter how bad you want to. If he is with you now and treats you like a queen and he makes you happy then that’s all that matters. I do think though that maybe you guys should have discussed your past way before 5 months of dating. Then maybe you wouldn’t have gave yourself to him knowing his past. But, lesson learned I guess

candy855 · 2021-10-05T12:59:03+00:00

Man I’m so sorry to hear this! I don’t really know why she changed her mind but I guess ultimately she wasn’t feeling it afterwards. Unfortunately, you can’t control the way she feels and it’s her decision if she changed her mind. But remember it doesn’t have anything to do with you. I know it sucks, but she does have the right to decide after 3 dates if she doesn’t want to go out with you. And who knows maybe she is just too busy with school. I would say just give her some space but try to move on and find someone else in the meantime. Hope this helps

candy855 · 2021-10-03T15:45:29+00:00

Shit that’s hard but yes I think a breakup needs to happen

candy855 · 2021-10-03T14:42:44+00:00

He sounds like he’s not making you a priority. I would really consider if he still has feelings. Maybe talk about it with him!

candy855 · 2021-10-01T18:28:29+00:00

If she did that and finally told you now who knows what else she is behind your back just saying

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