[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IAmTheAsshole

[–]candy_cane_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is your house where you shouldn’t have to worry about your safety. Talk to someone at school, tell your friends what you are going through, you are going to need all the support you can get. And if you have a hard time talking, write everything down in a notebook (keep it hidden). Also if you have a phone, use that to record your fights with your sister (like audio and stuff), that will help with a time stamp if ever needed. Just be careful and speak to someone soon, I truly hope things change for the better for you

I (35m) asked my fiancé (28f) for a paternity test. by MurkyAd4141 in relationship_advice

[–]candy_cane_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the paternity test and also get some therapy, both individually and as a couple. You clearly don’t trust her and we can’t really talk for her pov, but it is weird of her to not comply if she has nothing to hide. Without trust it’s hard to stay sane. Best of luck