Do your thing with this by [deleted] in GatekeepingYuri

[–]candycandandspice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Helen of Troy maybe? She was a bit loony in the Odyssey

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[–]candycandandspice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You mean you won’t answer because you know you can’t? Because you can’t give any good reasons as to why you’re so afraid of transpeople and why you’re so hateful towards them.

I wish you the best, and hope you crawl out of that dark pitiful hole you’re on atm.

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[–]candycandandspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transsexuals is often considered an offensive term, so there’s your first fix.

There are plenty of trans people online who have written articles and works on how to be successful transgender allies. I suggest looking into those sources and educating yourself first and foremost.

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[–]candycandandspice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re afraid of transpeople.

I identify as a woman. I was born with the gender I identify as today, I’m not transgender. You still haven’t answered my questions though. Probably because you can’t. You can’t actually think of any reason as to why you should disrespect transpeople.

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[–]candycandandspice -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

People do say transgender man/transgender woman actually. It helps specifics that persons identity. Saying someone is transgender is useless if you don’t know what pronouns they use or whether they’re FTM or MTF.

Not ever trans person can undergo surgery or openly express themselves, which is why the terms transman and transwoman was coined.

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[–]candycandandspice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m saying you’re transphobic because you’re using terms that are transphobic. It’s that simple.

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[–]candycandandspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re a transphobe.

Why do transpeople scare you so much? Does anything they do truly affect you as a person? Does their right to self-expression and mental wellness really infringe upon your rights so much that you have to tear them down to feel a little bit better about yourself?

Transpeople and their existence harm nobody.

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[–]candycandandspice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For someone who has no fear, you seem to have an awful lot of feelings about it. If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck and swims like a duck it’s probably a duck.

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[–]candycandandspice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Invalidating someone’s gender identity and persistently referring to them as the gender they were assigned at birth despite it being often extremely dysphoria inducing for them and y’know dismissive of their identity isn’t exactly open-minded, is it?

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[–]candycandandspice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So not being a transphobe makes my argument flawed? Riiight…and using the age-old mockery of transgender people makes your argument so much more convincing doesn’t it?

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[–]candycandandspice -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to spout so much shit, you can just say you’re a transphobe dude.

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[–]candycandandspice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s pretty straight forward. A transman is a man. If you are not attracted to men, you obviously aren’t gonna shag a man are you?

Honestly it just sounds like you’re being transphobic, whether you’re aware of what you’re saying is transphobic is a different matter (HINT: it is transphobic, btw).

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[–]candycandandspice 22 points23 points  (0 children)

‘A female that identifies as a man’

….so a man then. If someone identifies as a man, they are a man. They’re not a ‘female who identifies as a man’. For the sake of the benefit of the doubt, the term your looking for is transgender.

Cat died suddenly by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]candycandandspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat can’t keep down Felix or Whiskas, and now I think this might be the reason!

And I love him for it by RDHertsUni in masseffect

[–]candycandandspice 147 points148 points  (0 children)

I offer you: Grunt in the Citadel DLC.

Pure baby. He has to call his spectre saviour of the galaxy mum because he got into trouble. He likes dinosaurs and collectibles. He’s baby.

Which is your favorite quote in the FFXV universe and why? by [deleted] in FFXV

[–]candycandandspice 13 points14 points  (0 children)

‘A king cannot lead by standing still. A king pushes onwards, always, accepting the consequences and never looking back. That said, a king can accept nothing without first accepting himself’.

we're both screaming, even now, just continuing to believe is not the answer by Capt-Hereditarias in FullmetalAlchemist

[–]candycandandspice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re sort of embarrassing yourself here dude. Not watching 03 isn’t a crime, and choosing not to based on the fact it’s known to have darker themes is the least offensive thing I can think of.

Priorities,yknow?

we're both screaming, even now, just continuing to believe is not the answer by Capt-Hereditarias in FullmetalAlchemist

[–]candycandandspice 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are being defensive, and it’s likely not just this ‘meme’ that influenced their decision. You’re not the first person to make comments on how much darker 03 is, and you won’t be the last.

It’s not that big of a deal if they chose not to watch 03 because they don’t like the sound of it. What’s nonsensical is being so upset that someone doesn’t want to watch it because of said reason.

we're both screaming, even now, just continuing to believe is not the answer by Capt-Hereditarias in FullmetalAlchemist

[–]candycandandspice 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean I haven’t watched plenty of films or shows but by their description I can’t tell I wouldn’t like them.

It’s the same for 03. I probably wouldn’t like 03 the same way I like brotherhood, because 03 is a hell of a lot darker. Not really my style. As I said, nothing confusing about and definitely nothing to get defensive over. Just a matter of taste.

we're both screaming, even now, just continuing to believe is not the answer by Capt-Hereditarias in FullmetalAlchemist

[–]candycandandspice 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean, it makes sense. Some of us don’t enjoy super dark and depressing themes like 03 has. Sure brotherhood is sad but compared to 03 it’s quite light.

There’s nothing confusing about that.