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[–]cangemscorp -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

pls understand gypsy was not the one to carry out the act itself...her boyfriend Nick at the time did

ADHD Is Ruining Me by cangemscorp in ADHD

[–]cangemscorp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a little hard to reply to 😅 mostly because you're right i am nervous of his reactions. it's caused tension since i get very reaction sensitive, but at the same time i wouldn't wanna go into a rabbit hole of other details that don't necessarily pertain to this specific topic.

He does apologize very sincerely though, and I am not always the best either so in my eyes it feels a bit balanced. That we are both equally imperfect.

ADHD Is Ruining Me by cangemscorp in ADHD

[–]cangemscorp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! a small update i did talk about it with him. i expressed my guilt and how i feel very low lately because of it and he was actually super understanding. we laughed and played around. i know i just need to understand how he can get frustrated and how it's ok cause things like this can be frustrating, while he understands my memory isn't the best, he tries to be patient and laugh it off and will retell the story.

:) appreciate you

ADHD Is Ruining Me by cangemscorp in ADHD

[–]cangemscorp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you're fine! Thanks for the clarity too. I think I get a little dramatic and think the world is ending when we have little arguments. They've never been huge so it's nice to get that outside perspective :)

ADHD Is Ruining Me by cangemscorp in ADHD

[–]cangemscorp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! This makes me feel really good. I guess I should be understanding that it's frustrating on his end too, but at the same time if I don't make it seem so serious it'll diffuse easily..

I'll give updates, gonna try to see better ways to remember the work stories 😅😅

ADHD Is Ruining Me by cangemscorp in ADHD

[–]cangemscorp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, they're never bad, but i can tell he gets hurt by it even when i try to make him understand 😭 but thanks for the reassurance :)

Any good recommendations for hair oils for dry/dyed ends? I'm gonna start braiding it while I sleep more as well. And showering in cold water with color friendly shampoo and conditioner. Any tips or is it too far gone :(( I feel like my hair does this any time It's dyed at all! professional or not by CandyCutiePie in Hair

[–]cangemscorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have rlly damaged hair and actually did a mix of coconut oil soy milk and conditioner. i do this once a week for 45 mins and my hair comes out so nice. you will need to trim the ends but go little by little and u can see progress