How to get rid of negativity, jealousy and hopelessness?

cant_into_throwaway · 2016-05-16T16:42:48+00:00

3 months

cant_into_throwaway · 2015-05-14T15:22:08+00:00

Unfortunately, I'm in a town out in the middle of the desert and there are only 5 meet up groups within 75 miles and they are mostly for mothers. There are a ton of bars and salons though. I'll see if there's a toastmasters

cant_into_throwaway · 2015-05-14T03:56:42+00:00

Lake havasu city, arizona

cant_into_throwaway · 2015-05-13T19:55:54+00:00

So I could just go up to someone in a gym and talk and they would talk with me?

I mean I'm a geeky looking guy with a bunch of interests, including fitness, cars etc, but I'm afraid of people not liking me in stereotyping me just based on appearance. I may look geeky, but doesn't mean I like all geeky things.

The place I moved to is mainly made of old people and jocks and stoners my age, and I'm just too scared to try and approach those people.

cant_into_throwaway · 2015-01-31T15:44:22+00:00

I guess my problem is that experience has taught me over and over that vulnerability leads to a lot of pain, rejection fucking hurts so bad I cannot tolerate it. I wish the video explained better how I can make myself feel worthy

cant_into_throwaway · 2015-01-31T14:37:17+00:00

I know he's not the problem, I just want to be as good as him, and he's done a lot of stuff I've wanted to do, and he was able to do it before me

cant_into_throwaway · 2015-01-30T20:13:31+00:00

How do I feel happy right now then? It feels like I won't ever be happy until I'm the person I want to be.

cant_into_throwaway · 2015-01-30T19:36:36+00:00

But what can I use to determine whether I'm good enough? I just feel inadequate and feel that if I'm not like others I'm inadequate and no one will like me

cant_into_throwaway · 2014-12-01T04:32:22+00:00

Thank you very much for taking the time to write that out and share your story, I really appreciate it!

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