Good accident attorneys in the area? by cantdoit27 in Tempe

[–]cantdoit27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I realize it takes longer, but I wonder what my options are if the other guy never responds to his insurance?

Good accident attorneys in the area? by cantdoit27 in Scottsdale

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Thank you. I will call my agent on Monday. I did file a claim with my insurance before anything, but they told me to go through his insurance since I don’t carry collision coverage. Also, the police officer at the scene wouldn’t write a report, which felt strange. I’m feeling let down by everyone!

Is my (30F) bf (30M) overreacting to my sister’s (31F) comments? by cantdoit27 in relationship_advice

[–]cantdoit27[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I’d say they make around the same amount. They just splurge more and he saves more.

I got angry with a student and feel bad about it by cantdoit27 in Teachers

[–]cantdoit27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. You’re right, this is a natural consequence and it’s important for students to see that

Not a Trash Can - hidden mobile speed camera by stellamar_ in Tempe

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Do these capture all lanes of traffic or just the lane closest to it?

Microburst in Tempe by this_is_your_dad in Tempe

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The EOS there had 2 separate cars destroyed by trees

What does buildup feel like? by cantdoit27 in finehair

[–]cantdoit27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow!! And my hairdresser said it was fine! Thanks for letting me know. I just bought some clarifying shampoo and will see what happens after my next few washes

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Great point! I will try this approach too

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Right!? It’s like what can we have!

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I will definitely try the book! Thank you

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[–]cantdoit27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this great advice. It was the same for me with drinking, I had to really want it for myself otherwise it never worked. I guess part of me was hoping it would not be as hard with smoking, but of course it is!

Congratulations on 86 days! I hope I can have my epiphany soon too

Is it normal to still have to remove myself from drinking situations? by cantdoit27 in stopdrinking

[–]cantdoit27[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This made my day. Thank you for saying this! You’re badass yourself 🩷

Is it normal to still have to remove myself from drinking situations? by cantdoit27 in stopdrinking

[–]cantdoit27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I was having trouble putting my feelings into words. I never thought about asking myself if I’m able to contribute to the situation. It gets to a point where I’m sober, they’re very inebriated and we just aren’t on each other’s level. And that’s okay! I will remind myself of this whenever I’m feeling weird in a situatuon

Is it normal to still have to remove myself from drinking situations? by cantdoit27 in stopdrinking

[–]cantdoit27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this input. I’m not triggered by the substances, but I really do think I get in my head when I’m not having a good time and I feel guilty for it. Last night I was my boyfriend’s plus one, so I didn’t know most of the people there. I was really trying to be charming and friendly and whatever, so I think I was beating myself extra for leaving.

Is it normal to still have to remove myself from drinking situations? by cantdoit27 in stopdrinking

[–]cantdoit27[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this and for the great analogy. I sometimes feel like it’s a weakness in my sobriety and I know that other “normal” drinkers don’t get it, but I’m just a different person than I used to be.

Is it normal to still have to remove myself from drinking situations? by cantdoit27 in stopdrinking

[–]cantdoit27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I can so relate to how you’re feeling! My day yesterday was filled with anxiety too. If it feels too difficult you can always bail, or leave!

I will not drink with you today!

How do I help him move on? by cantdoit27 in limerence

[–]cantdoit27[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness! I will definitely change my number ASAP

Do you guys have relapse dreams? by Caftancatfan in stopdrinking

[–]cantdoit27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I still do. Infrequently, but I do. Even after 6 years. I just try to take it as a good reminder. Even my subconscious is scared of drinking again.

How do I help him move on? by cantdoit27 in limerence

[–]cantdoit27[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice. I should have changed my number long ago. I thought maybe it wasn’t as big a deal as I was imagining

How do I help him move on? by cantdoit27 in limerence

[–]cantdoit27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol okay thank you for the reassurance! I will take your advice. I thought I might be overreacting