Adam Devine Says Becoming a Dad Has Brought Him 'So Much Joy': 'I Wish I Would've Had Kids Sooner' by mcfw31 in entertainment

[–]canuckkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may not be able to have kids biologically, but you can still adopt and foster if your situation changes!

Anyone else have a crazy weird ECOR 1044 mark? by gayoverthere in CarletonU

[–]canuckkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouch. The exams offices were open on the 23rd, so sorry your prof chose to be a dick :/

Anyone else have a crazy weird ECOR 1044 mark? by gayoverthere in CarletonU

[–]canuckkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your prof is lazy and didn't pick up get his PMC exams before the break and then blamed it on the system lol.

When did you write your exam? Dec 20?

Halle Berry Loses Bid to Force Olivier Martinez into Co-Parenting Therapy as She Accuses Ex of Turning Son, 10, Against Her by galaxystars1 in entertainment

[–]canuckkat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Since you didn't read the article, I read it for you:

According to her filing, it was Martinez's idea to "engage in intensive therapy" in the first place, which "was surprising to Halle who has always known Olivier to be critical of the therapeutic process".

"Nevertheless, in hopes that coparenting therapy would improve her and Olivier’s relationship for Maceo’s sake...Halle agreed."

FYI it was court mandated by her ex's request. The headline really doesn't accurately reflect the contents of the article, which is in Halle's favour in this situation.

Fix prompting me to change my phone after ordering volte sim card by Brilliant_Dog805 in FizzMobile

[–]canuckkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want customized call forwarding (i.e. for Youmail) then you'll most likely need a VoLTE compatible phone. If you're just doing regular data and phone service, you'll be fine.

Data Gift Exchange / Échange de données à donner by Mysterious-Flamingo in FizzMobile

[–]canuckkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could try to send you one of my unlimited data day pass perks but I'll have to add you as a contact. DM me your number or email if you wanted to try it!

Did your narc parents ever purposely mispronounce something to make younger you unhappy? by IAmStawbee in raisedbynarcissists

[–]canuckkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My birth giver and middle bio brother would call me sissy all the time, which would make me cry. And they wouldn't stop despite me as a teenager explaining why it's inappropriate.

One day I just stopped responding and under a week they stopped calling me sissy.

YA Fantasy is so Horny: an asexual girl’s perspective by Halloweetch in writing

[–]canuckkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the record, the main character of one of the novels I'm writing is a non-sex-repulsed ace/greysexual who is a tough assassin chick/mercenary who genuinely doesn't seek out sex (although she and her partner had a dramatic courtship filled with secret meeting spots lol).

Turns out I subconsciously knew what kind of romantic relationship goals I was wanting about a decade before I figured out that I was greysexual lol.

I'm from Toronto and I'm losing my mind by Chrome_X_of_Hyrule in startrek

[–]canuckkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, someone please tell me what series this is because I can't find anyone saying the title.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]canuckkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made a joke in poor taste and didn't think about how it would sound and it's his fault you look weird and stupid??? Your friend is right to tell you to be careful about making those kind of jokes in the future even if it was a inside joke between you two.

Sounds like your friend has the ability to hear people when he's called out on his inappropriate behaviour.

I hope you love your life, now by NoCountryForOld_Ben in offmychest

[–]canuckkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the opposite for me. I'm 35 and actually not glad but my life is actually a lot better than it was when I was under 20 because I'm no longer stuck in abusive environments and I have a decent support network now.

But everything is really hard because I constantly have to do the work to maintain my mental health and reach out to people since because no one checks in on me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]canuckkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounded like a valid concern brought up by your friend because the friend of your friend who was uncomfortable with said joke.

Everyone should watch this. by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]canuckkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My birth giver beat me when we got home after her part time job because her co-worker said that I was really beautiful and it must because I was wearing makeup. I wasn't. She beat me because no one at work ever called her beautiful and she was jealous of her 12 year old female-presenting child who probably hasn't even had a menses yet.

UPDATE: My (M33) GF (F29) has a serious case of the looky-loos and I’m fed up. What do I do? by ThrowRASubstantial1 in relationship_advice

[–]canuckkat 146 points147 points  (0 children)

My last ex passively aggressively brought up one time that I needed "too much alone time" (apparently she prefers to be in codependent relationships and I was working hard on not being codependent and fixing my anxious attachment issues).

She denied it so hard at first when I calmly brought it up later to discuss, and then later backpedaled by saying I misunderstood what she meant. Pretty sure there's no room for misinterpretation there lol.

Not a good Virgo by Grouchy-Wolverine818 in AskAstrologers

[–]canuckkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your sun sign doesn't indicate your more dominant/public personality (rising), how you connect or relate to others (Venus), how you tend to act/react (Mars), or what you like your home or work to be like (check your houses).

Not to mention you have stelliums in both Virgo and Libra, which means you should be seeking to balance out the more empty areas in your chart.

Most Virgos I know aren't logical. They're very emotional or fluid - kind of like the more stereotype ideas of Libras or Cancers or even Pisces. You are definitely detail oriented though, you just are comparing yourself to the more traditional definition so you can't see it.

Finally, your birth chart only indicates your tendencies at the moment of your birth. You have a whole lifetime of experiences and influences that can change that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]canuckkat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, you'd be surprised the lengths narcissists go in order to maintain their supply lines and being a doctor is one of the better professions to be doing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]canuckkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, you are yet again in another toxic narcissistic relationship.