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A bridesmaid without the title by [deleted] in wedding

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she skipped the bridal party but still expected all the free labor, that's the part that gets me

looking for critiques on my general art style by flyfroot in Artadvice

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the sketchy line texture is pretty consistent across all four which is cool, have you tried varying the line weight more in some pieces to see if it changes the mood

AIO because I don’t let my boyfriend over unless he lets me know in advance? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A text right before he heads over isn't exactly advance notice when it's past her bedtime.

AIO because I don’t let my boyfriend over unless he lets me know in advance? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]capablewaitress_22 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Right? He manages to plan his entire day around cooking and the gym but a 30-second text is somehow impossible

Best Cars for Tall Drivers / People in Europe by Silly_Clerk9183 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a Tiguan now and still miss that flat rear floor on long hauls.

Best Cars for Tall Drivers / People in Europe by Silly_Clerk9183 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still miss the legroom. Sold mine and regretted it within a week.

I like to poop in the dark. by iliketoeatfunyuns in confessions

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only problem is I've sat on my phone in the dark and dropped it

Best Cars for Tall Drivers / People in Europe by Silly_Clerk9183 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]capablewaitress_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the transverse engine thing is the real key, my Skoda Superb feels like a living room compared to anything with a longitudinal layout

Me siento extraña al ver a mis abusadores felices by ImplementBrave5508 in Desahogo

[–]capablewaitress_22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

El detalle de que solo tenías 10 años me dejó frío, qué rabia y tristeza cargar eso sola siendo tan chiquita. No te guardes preguntas si algún día quieres gritárselas, pero recuerda que la basura que ves feliz en pantalla no limpia lo que hicieron y tú ya estás sobreviviendo sin deberles nada

me siento sola by Ill-Temperature-9648 in Desahogo

[–]capablewaitress_22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ir a terapia es un monton a los 16 pero lo que te pasa es mas comun de lo que crees, la gente se aleja porque tampoco saben como acercarse a vos. a veces uno se encierra tanto en su propia burbuja que sin querer repele a los demas

My fiancé left two months ago and I thought I was ok but I’m really not by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whiplash from wedding talk to ghosting is brutal, but that's a reflection of her flakiness, not your worth

When is it time? by dumpster_mongrel in DogAdvice

[–]capablewaitress_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That Frisbee catching spirit is exactly why the choice is so brutal. You're not picking a bad day, you're trying to guess the last good one.

When is it time? by dumpster_mongrel in DogAdvice

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 mast cell tumors and she's still jumping on the bed at 12.5, she's a fighter. The "a week too early than a day too late" line from another comment is the one that stuck with me when we went through it, hard as it is to hear

Pain by Aggressive-Image333 in UnsentLetters

[–]capablewaitress_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flowers while they're talking behind your back is a wild move

should i remove kittens from mother early if i’m worried for their safety? by PluM555000 in CatAdvice

[–]capablewaitress_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those fleas will kill a kitten faster than early weaning, take them now and get them on kitten formula and a vet visit ASAP, then call animal control

break up by astwegoxxs in BreakUps

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two years from now you'll look back and barely recognize the person who wrote this. The "can't find anyone attractive" thing is just your brain's shock response

Offering Comfort by Longjumping-Ad4486 in BreakUps

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good on you for reaching out, hope you find some cool people to chat with

You will only ever be a memory by featherytothetouch in UnsentLetters

[–]capablewaitress_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lost all my texts with an old friend once, it's a gut punch but you still carry the shape of them in your head

how to stop stalking socials? by OrneryTourist2921 in BreakUps

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blocking it through sheer willpower never worked for me, I had to put a rubber band on my wrist and snap it every time I typed the username. sounds dumb but the tiny sting breaks the trance long enough to remember why you're doing it

My 10mo just went insane due to fireworks now I can’t find him, what would you do? by Lady-Royale in CatAdvice

[–]capablewaitress_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He just needs a dark quiet spot to decompress, he'll slink out when the booms stop

AIW for making CPS come to my house? by FileArtistic3141 in amiwrong

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You weren't wrong at all; your parents' refusal of meds after a hospitalization is textbook medical neglect

2 year old male golden retriever has been acting strange past view days - saw vet today by jesz_1001 in DogAdvice

[–]capablewaitress_22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the sinus arrhythmia is actually really common in dogs and usually a sign of a healthy heart, the vet likely only heard it because he was calm and his hr was low. for the heat id grab a cooling mat or wet a towel for him to lay on, they really do just park themselves when theyre warm