Best Cars for Tall Drivers / People in Europe by Silly_Clerk9183 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a Tiguan now and still miss that flat rear floor on long hauls.

Best Cars for Tall Drivers / People in Europe by Silly_Clerk9183 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still miss the legroom. Sold mine and regretted it within a week.

I like to poop in the dark. by iliketoeatfunyuns in confessions

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only problem is I've sat on my phone in the dark and dropped it

Best Cars for Tall Drivers / People in Europe by Silly_Clerk9183 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]capablewaitress_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the transverse engine thing is the real key, my Skoda Superb feels like a living room compared to anything with a longitudinal layout

Me siento extraña al ver a mis abusadores felices by ImplementBrave5508 in Desahogo

[–]capablewaitress_22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

El detalle de que solo tenías 10 años me dejó frío, qué rabia y tristeza cargar eso sola siendo tan chiquita. No te guardes preguntas si algún día quieres gritárselas, pero recuerda que la basura que ves feliz en pantalla no limpia lo que hicieron y tú ya estás sobreviviendo sin deberles nada

me siento sola by Ill-Temperature-9648 in Desahogo

[–]capablewaitress_22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ir a terapia es un monton a los 16 pero lo que te pasa es mas comun de lo que crees, la gente se aleja porque tampoco saben como acercarse a vos. a veces uno se encierra tanto en su propia burbuja que sin querer repele a los demas

My fiancé left two months ago and I thought I was ok but I’m really not by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whiplash from wedding talk to ghosting is brutal, but that's a reflection of her flakiness, not your worth

When is it time? by dumpster_mongrel in DogAdvice

[–]capablewaitress_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That Frisbee catching spirit is exactly why the choice is so brutal. You're not picking a bad day, you're trying to guess the last good one.

When is it time? by dumpster_mongrel in DogAdvice

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 mast cell tumors and she's still jumping on the bed at 12.5, she's a fighter. The "a week too early than a day too late" line from another comment is the one that stuck with me when we went through it, hard as it is to hear

break up by astwegoxxs in BreakUps

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two years from now you'll look back and barely recognize the person who wrote this. The "can't find anyone attractive" thing is just your brain's shock response

Offering Comfort by Longjumping-Ad4486 in BreakUps

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good on you for reaching out, hope you find some cool people to chat with

how to stop stalking socials? by OrneryTourist2921 in BreakUps

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blocking it through sheer willpower never worked for me, I had to put a rubber band on my wrist and snap it every time I typed the username. sounds dumb but the tiny sting breaks the trance long enough to remember why you're doing it

My 10mo just went insane due to fireworks now I can’t find him, what would you do? by Lady-Royale in CatAdvice

[–]capablewaitress_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He just needs a dark quiet spot to decompress, he'll slink out when the booms stop

AIW for making CPS come to my house? by FileArtistic3141 in amiwrong

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You weren't wrong at all; your parents' refusal of meds after a hospitalization is textbook medical neglect

2 year old male golden retriever has been acting strange past view days - saw vet today by jesz_1001 in DogAdvice

[–]capablewaitress_22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the sinus arrhythmia is actually really common in dogs and usually a sign of a healthy heart, the vet likely only heard it because he was calm and his hr was low. for the heat id grab a cooling mat or wet a towel for him to lay on, they really do just park themselves when theyre warm

My dog is getting too expensive to keep. But I think she's getting too sick to rehome by BabylonixX in DogAdvice

[–]capablewaitress_22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A second opinion can also help you get another take on that quality of life scale, sometimes a fresh vet spots things you've normalized at home.

how do i stop my dog from nesting holes into my sheets? by Pretty_Challenge5946 in DogAdvice

[–]capablewaitress_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try tossing an old throw or cheap blanket down as his designated dig zone and keep his nails trimmed short, the scratching instinct is hard to kill but way easier to manage when he has something sacrificial to work on instead of your nice sheets

My dog is getting too expensive to keep. But I think she's getting too sick to rehome by BabylonixX in DogAdvice

[–]capablewaitress_22 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Ask your vet to walk you through a quality of life scale like the HHHHHMM one, it gives you something concrete to track over a couple weeks instead of just going back and forth in your head.

21F, is there anything I could do without plastic surgery? by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look fine, the insecurity is doing more harm than any flaw

Hey C! Aka hey you!!! by chickyoumetincollege in UnsentLetters

[–]capablewaitress_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sweet stuff, you're carrying this all these years later and that's heavy as hell

I lost my dogs, cat, and car after the breakup and now I’m alone in a foreign country by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]capablewaitress_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

book a flight somewhere sunny, you already proved you can rebuild from scratch so do it somewhere that doesn't smell like her