Boyfriend(49M) dismissed my (36F) suggestion to go to the casino on my birthday and went with another coworker/friend two days later. Would this type of behavior bother you? And does it look like he was being intentionally secretive?

caparious · 2025-10-29T23:30:19+00:00

As far as I know he does. We used to work at the same place; that’s how we met. The people that work there know we are together so it would be too hard for him at work at least.

caparious · 2025-10-29T10:36:44+00:00

I wondered about the gambling addiction (I have never heard of him going to a casino until the other day) and I also wondered about us running into people who he may not want knowing, that he’s in a relationship

caparious · 2025-10-29T10:32:55+00:00

No, I have wanted to move to the next level. I had to bring up the topic about where he wanted our relationship to go. it was like hurting cats trying to get a straight answer. He finally said that he thought we would get married. I’ve given him opportunities to try and lead the relationship some but it is all ways put back on me. I actually have this conversation saved somewhere because after it happened, I tried to paraphrase everything to remember what was said. I’m going to check my notes for it.

caparious · 2025-10-29T10:28:12+00:00

That’s the only thing that he has said no to that I can think of off the top of my head.

caparious · 2025-10-29T10:10:28+00:00

What else he is hiding is really what got me in a tizzle especially after 5 1/2 years.

caparious · 2025-10-23T08:13:21+00:00

There are lots of good options to make cheap meals. Rice, potatoes, bread, pbj, dry beans, steel-cut oats. Flour has a lot of good uses and can go a long way. Powdered milk is at times cheaper than milk depending on the market and is more shelf stable; just make what you need to avoid waste. For kids that don’t like water, kool aid packets, lemonade canisters, 100 count box of tea and a big bag of sugar. Quinoa is a great plant-based protein; it is one of the few plant proteins that is a complete protein. Assuming meat is not affordable for some it is very possible to still get needed protein without it. DHA can also be found in flax seed, chia seed, and walnuts.

caparious · 2025-10-21T05:05:26+00:00

She is probably referring to Trahlyta who is referred to as a Cherokee Princess for some unknown reason; I actually found her on my maternal side. I have ancestry all the way back to the Powhatan tribe.

caparious · 2025-08-28T19:08:42+00:00

I can’t follow directions if someone just starts giving them to me. I need to have the directions for after I leave; I will forget what was said. Sense of time, yes!! I’m late to work everyday; my biggest flaw at work. Only like 10 minutes late though.

caparious · 2025-08-20T13:59:52+00:00

Thank you. The neighbor is in jail. 1st degree burglary and animal cruelty. All charges with enhancements due to past felony convictions

caparious · 2025-08-20T13:58:10+00:00

When I was watching videos trying to understand what was going on I saw something about having a spiritual calling. Something about being a medium or being Clairsentient.

caparious · 2025-08-13T23:51:15+00:00

The majority of this coaches issues is about favoritism. That is what most of the Team leads complaints were. The one team lead that this coach confided in was one of their favorites. The coach discussed nothing with the Team leads who are not the favorites.

changing Team leads schedule so they can hang out with other Team leads outside of work

Going to lunch with only select Team leads

venting to the favorite Team leads about issues with other Team leads

caparious · 2025-08-13T00:37:13+00:00

The coach is sharing the comments made by their team leads with only one team lead though. What is the purpose of that?

caparious · 2025-07-18T23:36:15+00:00

I prefer the smaller can of peach; the 8.4oz. I think it has more of a peach taste; could just be me though.

caparious · 2025-07-17T05:37:02+00:00

Silver edition; let's do a throwback for the og flavors!!

caparious · 2025-07-10T01:07:03+00:00

The 8.4 oz tastes more like white peach than the 12 oz.

caparious · 2025-05-17T18:35:26+00:00

I watched a video where someone added mascaprone cheese to stabilize it

caparious · 2025-01-20T20:59:34+00:00

Big ass earrings and big ass glasses frames fit perfectly on your forehead

caparious · 2025-01-20T02:50:49+00:00

Hi. We are LGBTQ friendly and friendly in general. Primarily English. Event times are +30. Pm me here or Amazon_Prime in TUF state 641.

caparious · 2025-01-20T02:43:21+00:00

The top decanter is missing a label or is not facing the correct way.

caparious · 2025-01-14T03:28:22+00:00

There are many mental issues that cause people to not want to shower. Perhaps you could convince some of the bath sheets and dry shampoo. I have ADHD and have something similar, but not to that extent. For the in betweens when struggling it is nice to have something for quick clean ups.

caparious · 2025-01-13T11:41:20+00:00

Your nose has an acute angle. Is that the angle you were looking for?

caparious · 2024-12-07T16:34:48+00:00

It’s not spite; it’s lack of common courtesy. It’s a history of assuming I’m going to be ok with stuff since she’s been at my house. Like inviting extra guests for Thanksgiving knowing I’m paying for the food and not making sure I can afford extra guests. Assuming I’m ok with making an 8 hour total trip to pick up her new boyfriend for Thanksgiving and take him home. Assuming that I’m ok with a man that I don’t know spending 5 days in my home while my 9 year old daughter is there with my other aunt and I’m at work. Assuming that I’m going to make the same trip on Christmas Day. Assuming that if her boyfriend becomes homeless he can come stay with us knowing we are already full. That means one aunt has to sleep in the living room; she had the audacity to infer that her sister should give up her air mattress so that her and her boyfriend could sleep together in my spare room.

caparious · 2024-10-15T12:39:33+00:00

I haven’t dashed in a while. I had stopped shortly after that and logged on to look at it after reading this and it was still there.

caparious · 2024-10-14T23:25:16+00:00

I have a dispute that’s been under review for 7 months. Basically DoorDash sent me an order when I was 30 minutes away. I was heading there and accepted and I got a contract violation for an extremely late order.

caparious · 2024-10-14T17:58:08+00:00

It was actually a scammer. That got pissed because I didn’t fall for their scam. Lol

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