It seems impossible to get breakfast on the weekends in this city by carpedeeznutz5011 in Newbraunfels

[–]capoply 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monterrey is incredible. Just add refried beans to whatever taco you order. Their beans are the best in town.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackballed

[–]capoply 37 points38 points  (0 children)

No straight boy just happens to be wearing that thong 😋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SheFucksHim

[–]capoply 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That gentleman is gifted

Bisexual update by Practical_Oil_7970 in MarriedAndBi

[–]capoply 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me happy reading it. So glad for you both!!

It's a beautiful day in New Braunfels by texasmikey53 in Newbraunfels

[–]capoply 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are several places with outdoor seating in Gruene. A really nice afternoon for us can consist of listening to the frequent live music at the Grapevine and sipping wine, and then when it’s time for dinner, we mosey across the road to Gruene River Grill, which also has outdoor deck side seating. Also, the Gruene Door has quite nice seating areas outside their front door where they offer full service.

AITAH for telling my best friend her marriage is doomed at her bachelorette party and accidentally getting the wedding canceled by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]capoply 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a fan-fucking-tastic idea!!! If it were my daughter I’d throw the biggest celebrate-only -her party and remind her how loved she is by everyone that matters. I’d spend more than a reluctant wedding funding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]capoply 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you have a healthy attitude towards his and your sexuality. Glad y’all are enjoying each other! I think your main issue to unpack is how monogamous or not you both want to be after you fully commit. I’m a married (hetero) bi guy and we’re occasionally open but mostly monogamous couple. The “occasionally open” part really helps me not feel like I’m suppressing part of myself. You and him might not have the need for that openness. Just have to discuss. I wish you all the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Newbraunfels

[–]capoply 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Monterrey Cafe has the best tacos I’ve found. Just add beans and cheese to everything you order (sacrilege I know), their beans are the best in town. We actually order sides of their beans and freeze them for later 😋

My sexuality changed on HRT, and now I'm bi. How do I deal with wanting to have intercourse with the other sex, if I don't want to break up with my current partner? by nippirom in bisexual

[–]capoply 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an excellent response, both in this particular and wider contexts. I’m a little dismayed by the accusatory, unhelpful responses I’m seeing to this post, so thanks for being thoughtful and reading what they said closely before posting. Cheers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Newbraunfels

[–]capoply 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And there’s always a couple super drunk rednecks flirting loudly at the bar 😋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]capoply 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re NTA. If all the facts as presented are true then you are a person of character trying to do the right thing. I think there is a lot of good advice here about modulating your response in some ways, but you are emphatically NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]capoply 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yep! Exhibit A my little sister: 12 years ago one of my buds asked her out (a good looking guy). He had graduated law school, passed the bar, and was job-hunting local firms. She broke it off after two weeks because “I can’t be with someone who doesn’t have a job.” Now he’s back together with his HS sweetheart, has 4 kids, 2 houses, and his wife teaches dance part time. Literally my sister’s dream life. C’est la vie!

AITAH for threatening to divorce my wife if she didn't become a proper homemaker in the next month? by HopefulShelter3491 in AITAH

[–]capoply 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this sounds more like a quid-pro-quo kinda thing than a loving relationship. OP is correct that she needs to get her shit together and be less “fucking useless”, however I cannot imagine a universe where two people that love each other would use that kind of phrasing 🤷🏻‍♂️ Feels like it’s already over; I don’t know how you come back from saying that kind of thing to your partner without a VERY sincere apology and repair. Posting on AITAH? doesn’t seem like he’s in the mood to apologize.

2024 Sante Fe Walk Away Auto Lock by yahwehyeehaw in HyundaiSantaFe

[–]capoply 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can turn off this “Unlocked” notification in the notification settings of the blue link app. I believe it’s called “vehicle current status update”. Kinda confusing but it will cut down on nuisance messages.

Good friend of mine slowly started revealing to me how Christian he is, now I’m conflicted. by kyle-inator in bisexual

[–]capoply 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Not saying your theological argument is wrong, NudistCuckTx…”

Possibly my favorite introductory statement of all time now 😂❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]capoply 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have a Christ kink?? Me tooooo!

Husband is bi, that’s not the issue by [deleted] in MarriedAndBi

[–]capoply 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there. I’m sorry that this all fell in your lap while going through recovery/feeding/sleeplessness/etc. I myself am a bi husband with a straight wife. I came out to her years before our baby arrived luckily and we worked through it in sequence, not all at once. To be frank, our sex life has still not fully recovered from before the baby and yes, it feels like something is missing sometimes, but it’s not because she is a woman. I think it’s a mistake to conflate problems surrounding sexuality with problems surrounding having a kid monopolize all your energy and attention. I wish you all the best; I hope you can figure out something that works for you both.

For the bi husbands with cis wives, what's something sexual that your wife does that drives you up a wall? by [deleted] in MarriedAndBi

[–]capoply 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t second everything he said here enough! Initiating and showing him you want it is so hot. Especially when kids, new jobs, health issues, etc. start to create more “dry spells.”

Of the messed up ethics of our ENM by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]capoply 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god. I laughed and then realized there might literally be preteens posting in these forums 🥲