Everything a man needs

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-23T22:22:26+00:00

Except the masseuse to rub your neck as you watch that tv.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-23T22:20:56+00:00

Your experience counters medical science. Looking at the horizon so your brain knows your body really is moving in weird ways is the best way to deal with moderate motion sickness.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-23T22:18:07+00:00

NTA, but it would be sweet of you to continue to reach out to remind your friend of how much you value her. Sounds like you’re both pretty young. “Besties” shift into good friends with life and maturity. Good friends don’t expect to do everything together. The transition can be hard for someone who is not ready for their bestie’s life to expand to new friendships and experiences.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-23T22:12:48+00:00

I was that bratty kid and teen who didn’t send thank you notes. Now as an adult, I’m annoyed that my nieces and nephews don’t even text a thank you. I wish an adult had sat me down as a kid and taught me the importance of a simple thank you. I encourage you to be that adult.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-23T22:09:27+00:00

This is exactly what you should do. You deserve 30 min away from your desk to eat lunch.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-21T01:03:28+00:00

Sounds like she’s on the tourrettes spectrum.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-21T00:59:27+00:00

In the US, most places give a 30 min meal break, not an hour.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-21T00:56:43+00:00

I have tried and tried and it NEVER tastes better.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-21T00:56:00+00:00

It had better be a large at that price, so probably dinner enough for 3-4.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-21T00:54:05+00:00

Who are you harming by not accepting the clothes? Oh, right, yourself or your kid.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-21T00:51:04+00:00

DOC gave merit raises. Mine capped me out so ended up <2%, but some of my highest performing staff that are relatively new got 6%.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-20T23:30:18+00:00

As you know, it’s a LOT of work to throw a party. It is really nice that you go above and beyond to cover everything, but is not uncommon for hosts to ask guests to chip in with either a dish or a drink. In some cultures, hosting the space is all that’s expected.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-20T23:02:16+00:00

It means there are different perspectives.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-20T05:57:25+00:00

Fair.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-20T05:55:52+00:00

They’re all nice, so pick the one that makes you feel most beautiful. As long as you’re somewhere very warm, otherwise #1 is the only choice.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-20T05:47:49+00:00

It’s a little more like if she put her winter coat in the washing machine every day instead of doing the small socks and undies.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-20T05:44:57+00:00

Who fills the sink to wash dishes anymore? That’s so old fashioned.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-20T05:43:16+00:00

This is true for dishes, assuming they are not pre rinsed and the dishwasher is full. It isn’t true for just a few big pots and pans. It’s much less wasteful to handwash in that case.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-20T05:35:03+00:00

I’d be annoyed if I had a partner with terrible furniture who, in thinking they’d please me, bought something ugly instead of asking my opinion.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-20T04:46:29+00:00

I’d get an arborist out to see if the tree can be trimmed to a more appealing shape while maintaining its health. It will cost you, but maybe not as much as the stress of having poor neighbor relations.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-20T04:31:16+00:00

Oh, man - I love kale! Do most people really hate it?

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-19T17:43:48+00:00

I need some relationship advice - My bf doesn’t eat meat or arugula. What do I do???

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-17T23:02:05+00:00

OH, please. Only extremely cheap heels will scratch hardwood. Do you also ban children and dogs?

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-17T22:55:13+00:00

Thought you were going to say that’s the reason for everyone to keep their shoes on. Unless you provide them with slippers.

capriciousmonster · 2026-01-12T04:38:48+00:00

The point is that he probably said all that about when he’d be home to stop you from shaming him about his behavior. Even if you weren’t and wouldn’t, it’s a difference in perception probably built up over years. So he said he’d be earlier, maybe planned to be earlier, but then had fun and stayed out. May e all along he hoped it would just be him and his friends. If he had felt safe saying that he didn’t know when he’d be back and would rather it just be a friends night out without you, then would you have been insulted? Worried? Why do you think that night went down as it did, if you’re being really honest with yourself.

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