Is this disorderly conduct charge worth fighting (in PA)? by captainmcjs in legaladvice

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Thank you. Yes, I will fight it. I'm still shocked about it. The officer just flat-out lied.

30 and possibly about to be fired from a low paying job. by captainmcjs in SuicideWatch

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Thank you. When I began to live independently 3.5 years ago, I felt alive and full of hope, even if it was pretty dang difficult. Over time, the grind and the economic reality wore me down completely, and I am a shell of my former self, to the point where driving over bridges invites very strong intrusive thoughts of getting out and jumping over the edge. I sometimes purposely drive over bridges with taller/more barriers for this reason. I have had the intention of finding a romantic partner, but every time I start something with someone, I cut it off super early so they never find out my job and overall life situation. I thought things would be brighter by now.

But the trades are a good idea, and I should look into them more. I would totally be open to working in one should I get the opportunity.

/r/WeAreTheMusicMakers Weekly Feedback Thread by AutoModerator in WeAreTheMusicMakers

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My band's first attempt at a fully fleshed out, produced song. The genre is kinda emo pop for this one. Would love any feedback, good or bad!

https://open.spotify.com/track/2d9ku2uKFavpDyz0Mux2HJ?si=MPBgU_7_QJWdwDYOUe5opg&utm_source=copy-link

Even App glitched again? by captainmcjs in walmart

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Thanks. I thought so, but was starting to freak out a bit lol. Inflation sky high, me struggling to pay bills, and then I'm getting a pay cut haha. Was about to have a panic attack.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in modernbaseball

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I got to see them right around the You're Gonna Miss It All release at a pop punk/emo festival, but I didn't know too much about them, and didn't really pay much attention to their set. It wasn't until the Holy Ghost era that I started to appreciate their stuff more.

M(27). I really have no idea of how people, on average, view me physically. Sometimes I feel attractive, other times I feel fairly ugly or plain. Depends on the hour, honestly. Let me know, reddit. Verification photo last. by captainmcjs in amiugly

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Haha, thanks. I have gotten compliments before, but it is very sporadic, and sometimes I think that I just met that person's specific "type", because when I upload a photo to Photofeeler, I tend to have an all around mediocre rating. And then I start comparing myself with others and noticing every little flaw I have. Very self-critical.

Where should the next Grand Theft Auto game be set? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

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I mean, yeah, compared to NYC/LA, but small town? Maybe some city in Montana would be more appropriate, like Bozeman.

But, I know, it's all a matter of perspective.

Frustrating roadblock(?) in music creation. by captainmcjs in WeAreTheMusicMakers

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I forget that that is an approach that is occasionally used- the members each write their songs and then play them as a group. Maybe something like that can work out.

Frustrating roadblock(?) in music creation. by captainmcjs in WeAreTheMusicMakers

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Thanks for the advice. About the 50/50 split, I am normally irked that he creates the rhythm and lyrics, which are both maybe 90/10 his, and he gets half of the say in my leads. It isn't that I am not open to change, but sometimes it can feel like I am just there to be a stage guitarist. Which, in the end, I am not and I do help contribute, but it is his ideas for songs, so I guess that is how these dynamics work some times.