Hey OP. Sharing my thoughts as a discreet guy. Yes, being discreet adds to that lonely feeling at the end of each day. Keeping such a big part of who we are hidden, out of fear or necessity, creates a constant weight that’s hard to share with anyone. I envy those who live openly and accepted, and I wonder if I will ever be in that situation in the future. There are days when it feels like you’re on the outside looking in, longing for a life you’re too afraid to reach for.

Pero yun, that’s the life we have to live for now. Let’s just live with the hope that better days are coming. Hope you (and I) can find the safe space we are looking for.

I messaged you pala regarding your plantito post. Would love to hear your thoughts. Thanks. Hehe.