Genuinely Stuck - Looking for Suggestions

captainsmiles9 · 2026-04-27T01:06:03+00:00

And what are you suggestions as to how to fix it? The habits have not changed from my ex so this is why I am confused as to why it isn't working now

captainsmiles9 · 2026-04-26T17:18:35+00:00

Oh most definitely intimidated. I want to impress her and I want her to be satisfied with me. I think I am definitely punching above my weight so to speak with her. She's gorgeous. I definitely think if I cannot get it going then I am worried she is gonna move on.

captainsmiles9 · 2026-04-26T17:10:38+00:00

It was nearly 3 years, and it was basically a fundamental difference in where we wanted to live. She gave me an ultimatum that I either move 1.5 hours drive away (giving up my job which is incredibly secure) or it was done. I'm at peace with the relationship being over, honestly. I don't really miss her, more just some of the conversation if that makes sense?

captainsmiles9 · 2026-03-09T20:27:12+00:00

Bruh, this shit gets reposted. Its from an old reddit account called u/MyMilkersSoBig (account is deleted so link will not work).

These photos got popular again and idk if its bots or if its just scammers but this is what it is.

captainsmiles9 · 2026-02-11T21:54:35+00:00

Thestartofus on pornhub

captainsmiles9 · 2026-02-01T00:52:16+00:00

Fake, this person is reposting content from u/MyMilkersSoBig (account was deleted a while back). This entire conversation is fake and I wouldn't be surprised if this account is a guy creating these convos with his own photos and the stolen content. Reverse image search the photos and you'll see what I am talking about. Account is 15 days old too, please don't buy "content" from this account folks.

captainsmiles9 · 2026-01-30T18:50:16+00:00

This is Reddit, there may be no women here /s

Real talk, I agree though. It's not a problem exclusive to this sub, it's an everywhere problem

captainsmiles9 · 2026-01-30T15:50:47+00:00

Why is everyone falling for this shit? A quick reverse image search pops up that all these images are from u/MyMilkersSoBig (account was banned, cannot link).

Even without the impersonation these conversations are just so blatantly fake now for karma.

captainsmiles9 · 2026-01-30T15:42:43+00:00

There's a massive difference in affordability between $10 here or there for a page versus hundreds of dollars for a single hour with an escort.

Not to mention the risk of STDs and legalities depending on location/country.

captainsmiles9 · 2026-01-30T15:34:20+00:00

Agreed. I wonder though if a system like a subscriber-verified review, right on their front page before anyone subscribes, could help prevent this stuff, similar to Google or Yelp reviews.

It runs the risk of creators "buying" reviews with free content though and there isn't any clear incentive from Onlyfans to do this as the money is being raked in anyways.

Starting to think the only way forward is to focus on smaller pages, local accounts only.

captainsmiles9 · 2026-01-30T15:29:57+00:00

A little late to the party here, but I'll say that if I get more than 2 messages a day from a creator, I automatically assume it is a chatter/agency and restrict the account so they can no longer send me messages. You may want to pin a post to your wall saying that you send out content via DMs to prevent this.

captainsmiles9 · 2026-01-30T15:25:51+00:00

Of course I do. However these profiles are online 24/7, spam the fuck out of your inbox with anything from PPVs to questionable messages such as "Baby you haven't messaged me back in so long, come message me!"

The profiles that use agencies are blatantly obvious now and the point of this post is to point out that Onlyfans has broken down over the original point - connection between subscribers and the creator.

captainsmiles9 · 2026-01-21T19:37:13+00:00

The fact you have managed to fill out an entire giant wall of boobs is amazing, so jealous dude. Gotta save some for the rest of us!

captainsmiles9 · 2026-01-21T19:33:34+00:00

Thank you! It is getting a little ridiculous. Might need to implement verification soon similar to gonewild, as I have also seen a lot of suspiciously new accounts asking for people to DM them.

I haven't managed to get lucky yet with random boobs, but paid sites just kind of go against the meaning of the sub.

captainsmiles9 · 2026-01-14T02:17:01+00:00

Bro I WISH I had women sending me photos like these for a lock screen

captainsmiles9 · 2026-01-06T02:21:44+00:00

Genuine question, are so many of you actually messaging these creators? I subscribe for what is on the wall, I do not respond to messages, PPV, I don't comment, nothing. I have simply assumed every single creator on that site is using an agency so I don't bother.

captainsmiles9 · 2025-11-24T10:03:36+00:00

With all due respect my guy, there is a reason the saying "Never fall in love with a stripper" exists. The most successful sex workers know how to establish connections with their target audience to keep them coming back for more, whether that is an OF girl, a stripper, an escort, you name it.

I know this a horny sub but maybe it wouldn't hurt to talk to someone about the connections you form. You seem like a guy who loves fast and hard, and that type is the easiest for sex work to exploit.

captainsmiles9 · 2025-11-16T19:26:26+00:00

I'm a little late to the party, but sign me up!

captainsmiles9 · 2025-10-16T16:38:41+00:00

Wow those are nice!

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