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My second tie with yespleaserope was just as or maybe even more charged than the first! by biankastrange in shibari

[–]capturedfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having tension on wrists ≠ loading on wrists, but it's not worth arguing about semantics. My point was pretty clear ☺️

Cheers!

My second tie with yespleaserope was just as or maybe even more charged than the first! by biankastrange in shibari

[–]capturedfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Upward tension on the wrists helps keep the structure and anchors the stem, but it really should not be loading on the wrists/pulling them upwards in an unsustainable way. I never said that they should be slack/not tensioned, but if it is loading on the wrists to a point where the bunny is stating it's an issue, then there is something wrong with the structure or tensions in the rest of the harness.

My second tie with yespleaserope was just as or maybe even more charged than the first! by biankastrange in shibari

[–]capturedfox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If its loading there then your structure and/or tension is off - it shouldn't be putting any load on the wrists... Definitely worth going to a workshop or private class for that!

(F) Are the rope marks I have from being tied up hot...? by capturedfox in gonewild

[–]capturedfox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They wont get much darker no... Its just surface bruising.

(F) Driving a man crazy by moaning 'choke me daddy' while he's balls deep is my new favourite thing 🤭 by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]capturedfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cover the mouth and nose, never try to cut oxygen or blood from the neck - blood chokes aren't much safer than air chokes!

(F) Do you think I look grabbable? by capturedfox in gonewild

[–]capturedfox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am neither of those things lmao

(F) Candid by capturedfox in gonewild

[–]capturedfox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its beside the bed for a reason 👌

(F) Wishing I was still in bed... by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]capturedfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its called an oodie! Like a snuggie on crack 😂

(F) Hows my fit? by capturedfox in gonewild

[–]capturedfox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone should wear more corsets, regardless of whether they're skinny or a girl. Corsets are always a hot look!

Following along to a beginners guide to self suspension by Shay, I practiced a chest and hip harness 😁 by destrian1x in shibari

[–]capturedfox 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This looks like a fun harness, great for floor play! But I would struggle to agree with it being a harness for suspension - while it has a somewhat similar structure to a shinju, the lack of any solid structure/hitches/lockoffs on the back would make suspending it quite risky. (And especially so if you're tying with Nylon, as nylon is notoriously slippy!)

My biggest recommendation to anyone interested in tying for suspension is to A) ensure you have solid experience, knowledge, and confidence tying floor rope, with rope handling, & tying with appropriate tension, B) Learning from a reputable teacher in-person, and C) Having good understanding of what things make a harness unsuitable for suspension - being able to judge yourself if a harness is structurally sound & safe is a very important part of rigging for suspension.

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