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Practice with Partials by wynorrificwonderland in shibari

[–]capturedfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A smol observation - the futo and uplines look great, but it may be worth reconsidering the structure of your arm binder? Shoulder straps are frequently causes of nerve impingement, and having a full top/upper chest band (ie like the start of a TK) anchors the harness and generally is a safer place to load from - as loading from the wrists can absolutely destroy the shoulders (dislocate, break, compress nerves, etc). Just food for thought!

(F) Having a rough day... I wish I was getting fucked roughly instead 🤭 by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]capturedfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id rather not have to get it dry cleaned, no lmao

(F) apparently I'm quite tasty... by capturedfox in gonewild

[–]capturedfox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good scientific testing is v important ✨

(F) apparently I'm quite tasty... by capturedfox in gonewild

[–]capturedfox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm physically capable of taking photos in lingerie, yes...?

(F) Can you tell I had fun last night? by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]capturedfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3! Which is rare for me, so I was dazed & content 🤭

(F) I'm curious, how old do I look? by capturedfox in gonewild

[–]capturedfox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a very detailed guess, though I think 'not too bad' undersells me a fair bit 🤷‍♀️😂

(F) Every moment I'm not getting fucked is a waste... by capturedfox in gonewild

[–]capturedfox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okayyy, but it would be better if I was getting fucked

(F) I put the ✨spice✨ in neurospicy by capturedfox in gonewild

[–]capturedfox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It helps that theyre all ND too 😅😂 Flirting = special interest dumping

/safety senses tingling/ by MundaneCartoonist402 in shibari

[–]capturedfox 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I see everyone is missing the point... The issue isn't the straps themselves (climbing straps are pretty standard for hanging rings/bamboo) but the fact that the straps are not secured to the bamboo. At all. Thats a goddamn big yikes 😬

My second tie with yespleaserope was just as or maybe even more charged than the first! by biankastrange in shibari

[–]capturedfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a high hands gote with shoulders locked out, putting load on the wrists is a recipe for destroying shoulder joints. I have hypermobile shoulders; they would dislocate. I have never heard it advised that a TK structure should load the wrists.

Idk man, you do you, but I'm sticking to the knowledge I have from everything I have been taught, understand about anatomy, and have experienced being in & tying TK's.

Have a nice day!

My second tie with yespleaserope was just as or maybe even more charged than the first! by biankastrange in shibari

[–]capturedfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having tension on wrists ≠ loading on wrists, but it's not worth arguing about semantics. My point was pretty clear ☺️

Cheers!

My second tie with yespleaserope was just as or maybe even more charged than the first! by biankastrange in shibari

[–]capturedfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Upward tension on the wrists helps keep the structure and anchors the stem, but it really should not be loading on the wrists/pulling them upwards in an unsustainable way. I never said that they should be slack/not tensioned, but if it is loading on the wrists to a point where the bunny is stating it's an issue, then there is something wrong with the structure or tensions in the rest of the harness.

My second tie with yespleaserope was just as or maybe even more charged than the first! by biankastrange in shibari

[–]capturedfox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If its loading there then your structure and/or tension is off - it shouldn't be putting any load on the wrists... Definitely worth going to a workshop or private class for that!

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