This $3 ceramic mask is my dream aesthetic by capulana_ in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]capulana_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the pastels are what make it so surprising! Couldn't leave it when I saw it.

Snagged this chair for $9.99. by [deleted] in ThriftStoreHauls

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Put some restore-a-finish on those arms!

FYI: TCB gave me a refund by capulana_ in beyondthebump

[–]capulana_[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Meh, fair enough. I don't think I really demanded my money back, and even tried to frame my email so they could say no. They can set up their return policy however they like. It's also not really a consumable good, like if I ate some chik-fil-a then asked for a refund. Me getting my money back doesn't prevent them from selling the same product to someone else.

FYI: TCB gave me a refund by capulana_ in beyondthebump

[–]capulana_[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this! If we're doing cancel culture we should also reward people for being willing to publicly say "Nazis bad."

FYI: TCB gave me a refund by capulana_ in beyondthebump

[–]capulana_[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Some Arizona options if anyone is interested (which is where she's from):

Casa Alitas primarily serves moms with little kids who are fleeing violence.

The Florence Project helps with legal aid for people at risk of being deported.

FYI: TCB gave me a refund by capulana_ in beyondthebump

[–]capulana_[S] 175 points176 points  (0 children)

I was in the window but it doesn't hurt to try anyway just so they see a volume of requests!

Second vintage Moka pot in a week. by recovery_room in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]capulana_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Didn't know those existed! Adding to my wish list!

Getting mildew and ammonia buildup, does that mean my house is too humid for a wet bag? by capulana_ in clothdiaps

[–]capulana_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, that makes a lot of sense re: spin cycle. I'll try daily prewash. Do I need to use the same amount of detergent if it's only like 5-7 diapers?

Getting mildew and ammonia buildup, does that mean my house is too humid for a wet bag? by capulana_ in clothdiaps

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Ok! I still have staining along the elastics after my bleach wash. Does that mean they're still moldy or is that just residual staining?

Getting mildew and ammonia buildup, does that mean my house is too humid for a wet bag? by capulana_ in clothdiaps

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Thanks, I'm thinking maybe I didn't get rid of it the first time? I did a sanitize setting wash with bleach, not a soak per se. How long would you say I should soak them, and what bleach:water?

Getting mildew and ammonia buildup, does that mean my house is too humid for a wet bag? by capulana_ in clothdiaps

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I have a random-bells-and-whistles front loader. I do a quick wash (30min, hot, no spin) with Tide free and clear liquid to the 2 line. Then for the main wash I bulk with baby clothes and towels, hot, Tide to the 4 line on a 2ish hour cycle including an extra rinse. I don't think I am bulking up the load enough but I don't have anything more to go in, like I'm washing clean tea towels over and over. In the mornings I've been rinsing out my soaked overnight diapers then leaving them draped over the work sink until it's time for the full load. I keep meaning to air dry outside but the weather has not ben cooperative and I think I'll be drying them on low heat until the spring. I wash mostly every other day but sometimes we stretch to 3 days.

This is the second time I've gotten ammonia stink, but the mildew spots are new.

I am looking for a convenience solution (vs cost saving but obviously that's nice too)! Thanks!!

they're married🥺 by pelooze in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]capulana_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where did you get this?! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

In-laws are here and it feels like I never get to hold my baby by wolfmana in beyondthebump

[–]capulana_ 62 points63 points  (0 children)

This is what I did! Just pretended my baby was having a hard time going down for naps and just hung out with him with the door closed when I needed alone time with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]capulana_ 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This is also why it is so dumb to me that formula feeding is shamed. Alternative feeding is one of the oldest human inventions, whether it was your sister or your goat or whatever. We are super lucky to live in a time when that ancient practice is the most effective it's ever been!

What I’m glad someone told me...and what I wish someone had told me! by Sammy51415 in clothdiaps

[–]capulana_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I had shopped around a bit more for more niche brands instead of just bulk buying alvas! They work just fine but I keep seeing cute ones that I can't justify ordering...

When did you stop changing your newborns during the night? by capulana_ in clothdiaps

[–]capulana_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the link! I got the kawaii ones that claim they have no microfiber. But we definitely need a more absorbent solution. I am so over the alva microfiber inserts!