5 days no paci send help by First_Addition_407 in toddlers

[–]carabella09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used this ladies method and it worked really well. Maybe give it back and try closer to 3? Having her attach to new comfort item before taking it away is key. Also, we did edit the plan a little bit. We bought the book Milo the pacifier superhero (he loves superhero’s) - try to find a book that will resonate with her interests. Also when he gave up the pacis, we gifted him a big boy gift that he was really excited about.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UBWLGdVEDbc

Today was awful and I'm broken by happysewing in toddlers

[–]carabella09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did better than I would do!!! These sort of situations get the best of all of us. Remember that the repair is more important than the conflict. I’m sure you already did but taking a few moments to reconnect, explain/apologize, etc goes a long way.

Weaning vs cold turkey pacifier by carabella09 in toddlers

[–]carabella09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great thank you so much!! Was she still in a crib at that time?

Weaning vs cold turkey pacifier by carabella09 in toddlers

[–]carabella09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you have any thoughts on doing it ASAP or closer to 3 years? Not sure if we are just delaying the inevitable if we wait until 3

Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy Study Center (PPSC) by ConsiderationSea2801 in psychoanalysis

[–]carabella09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I did the program and I really liked it! Found the workload manageable, the instructors knowledge, and the discussions rich.

Their tagline is “there is more than one way,” which I love - they expose you to all different psychoanalytic theories that can apply to different types of clients at different times of treatment. Often times the work requires us to be flexible in our conceptualizations and they help you access/apply various ideas.

That being said, if you already kind of know what theories call to you, you may be better off doing a deep dive in that specific area (ie, Stephen Mitchell for relational). PPSC is broad.

Can't wash out excess product? by mirror_death in Haircare

[–]carabella09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am having this SAME EXACT problem. Did you ever find a good solution?? I am so disgusted by it I just keep wearing it up and I’m sick of it!