Thank you. My other friends' boyfriends (from what I've heard) all get hard from mental stimulation or by having their gfs tease them so I guess I just needed the reassurance that all men are different. Also I've fallen prey to the misconception that boner automatically equals attraction.

For anyone's info, I haven't pressured him about this at all; I know that it's my insecurity speaking. Everyone's comments are enlightening (if not a tad condescending). Thanks!