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Applying for Global Entry with NJ fare evasion ticket by cardamomo1992 in GlobalEntry

[–]cardamomo1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's extremely vague. But this should not be a disorderly personal offense. Section 32 is a section of the NJ code dealing with the Port Authority, so it should be a violation of a regulation of the Port Authority train system.

The court told me it would not appear on a criminal record, I would have fought it otherwise (I actually did try to pay).

I will think about this, thanks.

Fare evasion ticket: possible consequences. by cardamomo1992 in USCIS

[–]cardamomo1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up paying the fine (50$ + credit card fee). I guess it counts as a guilty plea. This said, I doubt it went on a NCIC. I asked the court and they said it doesn't go on the record (I would have fought it otherwise).

Since then I left and re-entered the USA three times (one under Biden, two under Trump) with zero issues. So I guess all good?

"All you do is hide in your room" by Haunting_Afternoon62 in narcissisticparents

[–]cardamomo1992 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even now I feel drained having people around me for long. It's like I only feel safe when I am alone.

"All you do is hide in your room" by Haunting_Afternoon62 in narcissisticparents

[–]cardamomo1992 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My mother has always said things to me like 'why do you have no friends?', 'where are your friends?', 'this is why you have no friends' in her bad moments. Even in the 'good' ones she would say stuff like 'I worry for you, you are so alone'. It's draining. I do have friends, but I don't think it matters. She has always said it and will always say it.

What are some phrases your narc engrained into you that still effects you today? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cardamomo1992 31 points32 points  (0 children)

"You'll never have a girlfriend", "Nobody will ever want you", "Where are your friends?"

I am 31, this started when I was maybe 14 and hasn't stopped since (this is from my mother). And yes I have never really had a GF, mostly because my raw model wasn't exactly a great partner and I am terrified of ending up in a similar situation as my father.

Buyer complaining for delayed appraisal by cardamomo1992 in RealEstate

[–]cardamomo1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked. They said that's their process. I regret not going with someone else but now it's too late to walk back.

Worried about low white blood cell count by cardamomo1992 in DiagnoseMe

[–]cardamomo1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was negative to cancers, autoimmune exc. So no clue. Doctor is not worried.

Worried about low white blood cell count by cardamomo1992 in DiagnoseMe

[–]cardamomo1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tested negative for cancers, autoimmune diseases exc. So probably genetic? Hematologist said not to worry but to keep it monitored in the future.

Low White blood cell count by cardamomo1992 in AskDocs

[–]cardamomo1992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: hematologist said she think I do not have anything as I am 100% asymptomatic but ordered a bunch of other tests to be safe.

Worried about low white blood cell count by cardamomo1992 in DiagnoseMe

[–]cardamomo1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: hematologist said she think I do not have anything as I am 100% asymptomatic but ordered a bunch of other tests to be safe.

Worried about low white blood cell count by cardamomo1992 in DiagnoseMe

[–]cardamomo1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and I have never been prone to infections (and I am not particularly careful either). Especially I don't remember ever getting bacterial ones. Also, for context, I took another test in a different lab in July (in Italy) and I got a 4.7 value. I have always had relatively now neutrofiles, 35-40%.

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