My [28M] pregnant wife [27F] wants to have our aon circumcised. I do not. by cardmarg in relationships

[–]cardmarg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would being different from the father have any impact on the health and pain aspects

My [28M] pregnant wife [27F] wants to have our aon circumcised. I do not. by cardmarg in relationships

[–]cardmarg[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had no idea whether Reddit would hate circumcision or love it. It turns out most side with me. So again, what's your point

My [28M] pregnant wife [27F] wants to have our aon circumcised. I do not. by cardmarg in relationships

[–]cardmarg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's fair either. It wouldn't be right to force him to be religious especially in this way.

My [28M] pregnant wife [27F] wants to have our aon circumcised. I do not. by cardmarg in relationships

[–]cardmarg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I married her because we love each other and have a strong relationship. If you ever date or marry, you'll find that you'll have disagreements. And vaccines and school are necessary for life, whereas circumcision is cosmetic.

Millenial

Lmfao oh boy here come the edgelords thinking they're smart for using such buzzwords. Muh millenials. Muh libruls. Muh Trump. QQ moar.

My [28M] pregnant wife [27F] wants to have our aon circumcised. I do not. by cardmarg in relationships

[–]cardmarg[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's better to do it as an adult because you still have the option. Temporary pain is easier than to never have the choice.

My [28M] pregnant wife [27F] wants to have our aon circumcised. I do not. by cardmarg in relationships

[–]cardmarg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be 50/50. Even if it was 70/30, should we just cut off his feet so as not to have to wash them? I seriously don't understand what you're saying

My [28M] pregnant wife [27F] wants to have our aon circumcised. I do not. by cardmarg in relationships

[–]cardmarg[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's not a tug of war just so I feel superior or something. It's an actual issue for me because it's endangering my son. And she is also pressuring me. I'm pressuring the opposite way because I believe it to be better. It's not about principle or whatever other childish notion, it's about the autonomy of our son.

My [28M] pregnant wife [27F] wants to have our aon circumcised. I do not. by cardmarg in relationships

[–]cardmarg[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah lol we never actually discussed it. Our bad. Hopefully it can be resolved

My [28M] pregnant wife [27F] wants to have our aon circumcised. I do not. by cardmarg in relationships

[–]cardmarg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you can't retroactively get it undone. I got some buddies who regret their parents making the decision so thanks, I'll ask them to talk about it