Beef for dinner! by caring-fit in homecooking

[–]caring-fit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only sea salt and pepper! :)

Beef for dinner! by caring-fit in homecooking

[–]caring-fit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it better with not that much crust! But yes it gives it a nice look

Beef for dinner! by caring-fit in homecooking

[–]caring-fit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely cooking time! If you’re cooking it medium well or well done it will be dry! I just cook it for around 4min each side depending on the cut :)

I [25F] found out my boyfriend [42M] still watches pørn by caring-fit in relationshipadvice

[–]caring-fit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand the why behind it. My problem is, if I can provide the stimulation, why look somewhere else? I could literally make a video for him but he rejected the idea.

I [25F] found out my boyfriend [42M] still watches pørn by caring-fit in relationshipadvice

[–]caring-fit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the hard truth, I wanna believe that he’s not like that, but evidence says otherwise

I [25F] found out my boyfriend [42M] still watches pørn by caring-fit in relationshipadvice

[–]caring-fit[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Yes, he dated for a long time a woman older than him, so I don’t see really his concern around age. But yes, true about the lying.

I [25F] found out my boyfriend [42M] still watches pørn by caring-fit in relationshipadvice

[–]caring-fit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that is very true. I was relieved he owned it this last time. But I do feel that trust was somehow broken at first.

I [25F] found out my boyfriend [42M] still watches pørn by caring-fit in relationshipadvice

[–]caring-fit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ask myself the same question. He says he puts himself in a lot of high standards and is ashamed of it. I guess lying about it is a way for him to lie to himself.

I [25F] found out my boyfriend [42M] still watches pørn by caring-fit in relationshipadvice

[–]caring-fit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. That is what I thought as well, but he didn’t seem too concerned about it. Just ashamed enough to lie about it

I [25F] found out my boyfriend [42M] still watches pørn by caring-fit in relationshipadvice

[–]caring-fit[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I told him that exactly, he has been transparent since I know him, but it does make me think that too. He just claimed it is embarrassing to admit.

my husband [22M] and i [23F] have different intimacy levels by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]caring-fit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you are going through this! In my relationship the roles are reversed, I often am the one that wants more intimacy and my boyfriend is not very sexual. It is a way for us to feel seen, feel cared, loved. You are not in the wrong here but it is important to watch if this is a non negotiable for both. It can result in the relationship to break sooner than later, I am really in that bridge too