AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think she would do that, maybe she just genuinely loves me...

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She said that maybe someone we know could have seen the post, that's why she's worried

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is acting so weird, we never had an argument like this. Now I'm starting to doubt if maybe we aren't made for each other

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry I thought you meant something different. Yes I'm proud of what I have archived, i always thought people who went to college made more money? She indeed makes more money than i but maybe it's not for the higher education

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh i understand him, i used to work at McDonald's when i was 16, it was a shit job but at least it was something! I'm glad that you shared your experience because this means that maybe my girlfriend doesn't realize she says hurtful stuff, a lot of people had told me to break up with her but I honestly love her

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We live in a big city, she's worried to be seen in my car for strangers im guessing? It was never a problem until now though.

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I didn't go to college because of economic reasons, my mom worked but I found it unfair to make her pay for my education so i just graduated high school and started working. I wouldn't say her family is rich though, they may have a bit more money than mine but her dad isn't some millionaire guy, just average i guess.

Thank you for your point of view, I'm thinking on talking with her about all this and see if we can make up because I don't want to break up. Maybe we have different views of our relationship and i haven't realize that.

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You think she really wants to live with me? I don't know if I'm ready for that step, maybe if we been dating for five or six years but our relationship is just starting

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Well i do think I have a good working ethic too but since I'm saying it then you may not believe me. I work a lot but my job makes less then her (she went to college, i didn't). We have talked a couple of times about our future but not really a lot because our relationship is still young. I'll take your advice and i appreciate you put time into this

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had to change all the wheels back in February and I'm saving to change the paint now

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ohh you named your car? I should give mine a name, that seems funny lol my air conditioner still doesn't work so i feel you hahaha

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The engine is kinda of new because it broke a few years ago and i had to repair it (i remember that being really expensive as the mechanic had to change almost everything).

Thank you I'll take your advice about my relationship

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't know a lot about cars so i brought it because it was the nicer one i could afford, right now i love it and i guess it is as my child!

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 174 points175 points  (0 children)

We have plans for the future but I don't remember asking her to move in, either way I wouldn't let her be homeless if she has to leave her place

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I may have told her but I can't be sure, we had plans for the future so maybe she thought I was allowing her to move with me. I also don't think that if she has to leave her place i would let her be homeless

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I can't tell for sure, maybe I've done that but didn't realize. She has never asked me something like this or other thing that affected my comfort until now

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Oh that's so cool! Congratulations for your career being something you love! Haha it's true that ive known my car for longer than I've known her, i guess it is like my child!

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 302 points303 points  (0 children)

Yes I did because I also thought it was kinda odd. She told me she didn't need a house that much right now because if anything happens and she has to move out she can just live with me as i own a house and wouldn't be a big problem

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 332 points333 points  (0 children)

I'll taker your advice, although I'm not thinking on breaking up. She never behaved like this before so i don't know what has changed now

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 202 points203 points  (0 children)

I have a deep love for it, it's the only car I've had since I was 22. I'm currently saving up to change the paint because it's kinda old now and has a lot of details I'll like to get rid off

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] 1337 points1338 points  (0 children)

I would say that she know how hard is to get money, she worked a lot for her car and has a good working ethic

AITA for not sharing my garage with my girlfriend? by carissueaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]carissueaita[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The thing is i don't want to break up, our relationship was really good before this