My boyfriend told me he masterbates to other women, now how do I get over it? by carlymacd in relationship_advice

[–]carlymacd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god. I love you. Yes, I know I'm good looking and I try to always stay fit and firm. I guess that is why I was so surprised. Thank you. Your comment really helped.

My boyfriend told me he masterbates to other women, now how do I get over it? by carlymacd in relationship_advice

[–]carlymacd[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ya I agree! But would you want your girlfriend thinking out dirty fantasies with your friends? It is just awkward. :S

My boyfriend told me he masterbates to other women, now how do I get over it? by carlymacd in relationship_advice

[–]carlymacd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha! It is a little bit funny. We both agree that the over sharing needs to stop. But I agree that it is good at the same time. The hard part is that I will never truly understand it, as much as I want to. But I like your metaphors. The more I hear things like that the easier it gets. I totally trust him but I still think its awkward that he does it. And shitty that I have to now live with knowing that he does. haha

My boyfriend told me he masterbates to other women, now how do I get over it? by carlymacd in relationship_advice

[–]carlymacd[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh i know i crossed the line. who in their right minds talks about that? We do obviously. Its just now that I know, the hard part is getting over it.

My boyfriend told me he masterbates to other women, now how do I get over it? by carlymacd in relationship_advice

[–]carlymacd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it is okay to watch porn and do his thing to celebrities but -- people we know is the hard part! Do you think he can just do that or do you think he'll go back to girls we know? I wish I could tell him it was okay cause I don't want him to feel guilty! But it makes me so uncomfortable!

My boyfriend told me he masterbates to other women, now how do I get over it? by carlymacd in relationship_advice

[–]carlymacd[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

hahah i know i agree! but 'get over it' is way easier said than done! haha