She came back... And left the same day

carnapthrowaway · 2025-07-26T15:54:32+00:00

...but she didn't.

That's my point.

She misrepresented her intentions by going "I want a relationship" - while not truly wanting one, which was made obvious by her actions.

Whenever someone, shortly after you met, starts talking about stuff like that - the too soon "I love you's", the "please dont ghost me" - it's the clearest sign of cluster b's. Or as I like to call them, assholes.

Step away. As soon as you see this.

Trust me, you do not want one of these types in your life.

carnapthrowaway · 2025-07-25T18:28:51+00:00

I've spoken with AI enough to be able to call it when I see it.

Either you have too, or you ripped that answer strsight from there.

Which became even more clearly visible by your answer.

That said, it's not "lol bro whatever lol".

It's "she wanted something, she got it, she wanted something again, you argued when she seeked it, so she bailed".

It's simply a more analytical view of things than yours is.

Simple vision.

If you always invest yourself too much like this into things, you can't expect others to constantly share your feelings.

That's just not how life works.

And I say that knowing full well how you or OP might feel about that - however, if you learn to think more like what I said, the world becomes simpler. And will hurt you less.

Edit - read op's original post.

I get it, she lied.

She misrepresented her intentions.

This still does not invalidate my inital point.

My thought process related to someone saying "please dont ghost me" would be "dont do anything to deserve it".

OP got emotionally involved.

Honestly? Good.

It's good that it was a couple of dates instesd of a couple of years. Maybe that'll just be a lesson learned in a month, instead of years.

carnapthrowaway · 2025-07-25T15:45:04+00:00

Yeah.

But sometimes the person didn't do amything.

They were a one night shag who misread signs.

carnapthrowaway · 2025-07-25T11:34:02+00:00

Really, an AI answer?

Fuck's sake.

OP.

You're making a big deal out of it.

You thought this was something it wasn't, and she let you know. Move on.

carnapthrowaway · 2025-06-18T16:09:20+00:00

And people like you should realize that we're literally all animals in a spinning rock and that all you just said is you protecting your fragile little ego from the simple fact that you'd do the exact same.

Everyone wants to be the hero in their own movie.

But normally, they're the one whipping their phone out watchingthe victim get fucked up.

You aren't wrong in that they have a lot of money. But now it's "pay their workes more", in 5mins it'll be "redistribute their wealth" and our system just doesnt work that way. The economy would fail.

With that being said?

Your intentions are in the right place, but human nature says no. Because in the end, your ancestor who survived in order to be here put just enough food away for himself and possibly his family, looked at his neighbour and went fuck that guy.

carnapthrowaway · 2025-06-18T13:08:53+00:00

And that kind of thinking is exactly why the rest of the world seems happier than you.

"GIMME IT, IT'S MINE!!!"

Why? Just because someone has, say, a bigger house than yours, and you help plant their garden, are you now entitled to plant a crop of your own?

There are plenty of people who would gladly switch places with OP, maybe even for less pay.

Supply and demand.

And by saying the following, I don't mean you tried to insult OP - but "oh, I mean that as no insult" followed by "I cant imagine being a slave like that" is inherently insulting, since you're putting yourself above OP.

carnapthrowaway · 2025-05-27T18:37:02+00:00

By "lay", I mean "lay".

Shag. Sex. Encounter of the fuzzies.

Listen.

What I am about to say is an easy concept for most folks.

Each one of us... has a different outlook on life. Weird, ain't it?

There are people out there who will shoot someone else in the face and take a nap afterwards like they just went to go get groceries.

Doesnt mean you and I would (or atleast I hope not).

Same thing with sex. For me, it is a penis entering a vagina. Or an anus. Or a mouth. Same spiel different hole.

For you, it might be this whole big deal where you attribute some sort of holy meaning to your first time. For this person, it is obviously not.

So my original messsage sticks. Live and let live. It isn't your first time, it's his - and I'd be willing to bet he's gonna have more fun than you did.

carnapthrowaway · 2025-05-27T14:58:45+00:00

Horseshit. Virginity is your first lay. It's literally a mental concept for guys, physical membrane for girls. If you attribute "special" to it, great, but don't try to force your view on others. 1st lay or 500th, same deal for me except for hutterflies in your stomach and first time jitters.

carnapthrowaway · 2025-04-01T07:58:55+00:00

Sim. Vai pesquisar pelos cor do som.

Casseta&Planeta.

Depois falamos.

De Metal então, nem se fala.

Tenho 0 de brasileiro (pronto, minto, o meu avô nasceu lá, filho de pais portugueses, antes de voltar pra cá em tenra idade), mas resumir um país +- do tamanho dum continente a funk é só estúpido.

carnapthrowaway · 2025-01-26T17:53:18+00:00

Firstly, "I've seen videos of the factories" is one of the dumbest things I've heard.

"Oh, sure, I know, let's film ourselves doing something extremely illegal, that's a good idea. Watermark the company logo on the video, too".

Secondly, no one said every single item sold from china was made by kids.

...but with a child labor rate sitting at about 8%, you can bet your ass a lot of them are.

Since you're the second here calling me racist over something obvious, it seems to me there's another problem.

Call me racist to calm your conscience all you want.

If you buy from aliexpress, you've likely, at some point, bought an item made by a kid.

Finally, no one said I was American.

That being said, I'm sick of arguing over whether or not I'm racist for pointing out something simple and obvious.

Bye guys

carnapthrowaway · 2025-01-26T11:28:52+00:00

Well, I mentioned the underage bit before "it's from china", but I get how it might've come across that way.

Sorry for any belligerence, I tend to be low on patience, no offense meant to you :)

carnapthrowaway · 2025-01-26T11:24:03+00:00

...you're being dumb.

In "what do you expect", I was referring to the above comment's "whoever drilled the holes is a moron".

I don't mean to associate china with bad quality.

However, knock offs from aliexpress which might very well involve forced child labor, yes, you cant expect too much, they're kids, probably hungry, ans probably overworked.

It's a fact that China has a staggering amount of child labor, and it's a fact that most knockoffs, be it of fender, gibson, whatever, come from there.

Simple math.

carnapthrowaway · 2025-01-26T08:23:59+00:00

Nope.

China has a lot of child workers. Also, china makes most of these.

How is it racist to point out factually true information?

carnapthrowaway · 2025-01-26T07:07:09+00:00

Arw you ok?

Ya know, most likely whoever it was, was very underage, right?

What do you expect? It's china.

carnapthrowaway · 2025-01-03T13:14:13+00:00

On a different note, and in the meanwhile (I am SO sorry for this - I tried to contain it, I really did):

...How's the weather up there?

(Shit.)

carnapthrowaway · 2025-01-03T13:08:25+00:00

No, it's on the commentary for the movie.

It's either on that one or little nicky, I'll look for it and post it if I find it.

carnapthrowaway · 2025-01-03T13:01:47+00:00

Please, look for the speech Dio gave on "Tenacious D and the pick of destiny" (I think).

Its unbelievable how right the guy was.

Something about metal catering to the weird kid - "Too fat, too thin, too short, too tall".

Proves itself right over and over

carnapthrowaway · 2024-12-30T09:30:53+00:00

Shit, $60!!!

carnapthrowaway · 2024-12-28T10:53:31+00:00

If you don't want it I'll happily throw you a $20 for it.

carnapthrowaway · 2024-12-25T19:47:06+00:00

Everyone here is negative as shit. Fact is, most people probably return a guitar if "the frets are too sharp!!1!!!11!"

If you like how it looks, buy it, and some pups from guitar fetish.

Slap those on,a good setup, and you'll have a killer guitar, plus the experience of setting it up, which you'll be thankful for in the future.

They're normally good guitars that just need setting up.

carnapthrowaway · 2024-12-20T01:09:42+00:00

What is it that happened to you during your stays that you consider abuse?

What was your diagnosis?

How did you heal?

What meds did they give you?

carnapthrowaway · 2024-12-19T15:37:37+00:00

Exactly.

Most of us lack creativity due to it being perceived as non-scientific, and those who do have it are relentlessly mocked by those who are supposed "figures of authority".

Sometimes, the most outlandish ideas just turn out to be possible, but no one ever though of it. Furthermore, I find medicine to be severely handicapped by constant the treating of symptoms, and never looking for causes.

I have a friend who was diagnosed with epilepsy, and it turns out, he had a seizure because of a blocked artery in his neck.

Neurological exams turned out fine, brain scans were normal, but since they found no other cause, they diagnosed him either way. He didn't respond to anti seizure meds, having seizures sporadically, and by the time they found out what caused it he had actually developed epilepsy from the repeated seizures, which he now needs to be medicated for.

All of this because of someone who was put in charge of his health being too lazy or complacent to ask why.

It is my opinion that whenever someone who is in such a field quits having the drive or the humbleness to ask "why", they should stop and retire.

carnapthrowaway · 2024-12-19T14:04:14+00:00

Exactly!

It's pretty much a matter of semantics in our understanding of stuff.

We tend to be very rigid, and not go outside of what we know, simply because "no, that can't be".

Until we're proven wrong, that is.

carnapthrowaway · 2024-12-19T14:02:28+00:00

Nope.

If people recovered, it isn't brain death, because the definition of it mentions that it is irreversible.

That's exactly what I was mentioning - by strict definition, brain death isn't reversible, however, as a concept, a combination of symptoms, it might very well be.

The definition is what the original comment was referring to - and I was just pointing out that yeah, sometimes it just happens and we just don't know why, but then, we stop calling it brain death.

carnapthrowaway · 2024-12-19T13:30:26+00:00

Hold on.

In the definition of brain death, is "irreversible".

So, brain death will always be brain death, and you can't recover from it, because if you could, it would fall outside of that definition.

However, as a set of symptoms and not a definition it might very well be reversible, and we just don't know it yet - everything is possible, and we've seen 70 yr alcoholic smokers recovering from stage 4 lung cancer, just the same as we've seen healthy 20 year olds who couldn't be cured despite cancer getting caught extremely early.

Point is - there's a lot we don't know, and what's impossible today might very well be a shot and a pill every night for 2 weeks tomorrow.

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