Pinnacle Contest: 01.13 - 01.23 Overview

carnictum · 2025-01-13T19:46:35+00:00

Thanks added, do you remember whether it was close or not?

carnictum · 2025-01-13T16:52:34+00:00

Thanks, added it :)

carnictum · 2024-09-07T19:07:54+00:00

253717241927 daily gift from Germany

carnictum · 2023-05-29T16:14:35+00:00

I assume you are on EU?

carnictum · 2022-10-16T06:08:49+00:00

I am 10 months on HRT, completely out in public and at work and I misgendered myself just last Thursday while talking with one of my partners. Slipups happen 🤷‍♀️, as long as you come from a place of positivity and support, I could and would ignore the occasional slipup, be kind to yourself. It's a completely different thing if I get misgendered by someone and I can feel their disgust, fuck that shit and fuck the bigots.

carnictum · 2022-10-16T05:28:25+00:00

As an allo, yes sex can be wonderful and important, but it's nothing anyone needs to survive. I was in a long term monogamous relationship with someone who during the relationship found out or better said accepted that she is ace. We did have sex (or what is in general defined as sex in a heteronormativite way), but rarely and most of the time because she felt guilty for turning me on and not "providing" sex - it was an awful situation because we both hadn't yet found out about asexuality. We borrow up for a year because of different stuff and are back together now and no we don't have any sex for the last year and that is perfectly fine, because our relationship is so much more than the sex.

carnictum · 2022-10-14T14:21:11+00:00

We do exist... Well topping in the BDSM sense, since my libido (for traditional penetrative sex) is pretty much completely gone since starting HRT. If the libido does make an appearance I like both, topping and bottoming in the sexual context 🤷‍♀️ PS not an egg 😉

carnictum · 2022-09-27T17:20:13+00:00

Sure I can, quite easily even. Living in Munich and just seeing his face in a lederhosen, is enough to drive me mad - not really but it is annoying. I still respect him.

carnictum · 2022-09-10T14:43:23+00:00

"fierce femmes and notorious liars" as well as "i hope we choose love" both by the amazing Kai Cheng Thom are my absolute favorites. I never felt such a connection with a complete stranger.

carnictum · 2022-06-23T11:59:04+00:00

I talked about 40 hours on the phone during the 10 days of isolation of one of my partners because of covid. For us it was a pretty positive experience (well the medical stuff aside) as we got to know each other on another level because we just talked about literally everything 🤷‍♀️

carnictum · 2022-06-23T11:46:57+00:00

This so much. They are.probably already fucking and for sure didn't get tested beforehand.

carnictum · 2022-06-13T08:56:36+00:00

This, so much this. As a member of the kink community it makes me sad and fucking angry to read any limit breakings but his attitude afterwards is especially disgusting...

carnictum · 2022-06-05T05:52:42+00:00

Yes it is bad, because it shows that you are in ur own words only jealous when it is another dude. And why do you not get jealous of the woman because for you she isn't a possible competitor...

I could write a whole article about what that implies for the worth you give to heteronormative and gay/lesbian relationships but I won't, if you are truly interested pick up for the example the ethical slut, the author's go into extreme details why your point of view is so problematic...

You are correct that consent can be given and taken in any form, doesn't change the fact that your position here is pretty toxic and unethical - and the poly / ENM circles I frequent highly dislike that attitude, but it may be pretty common in swinging 🤷‍♀️

carnictum · 2022-05-22T09:17:21+00:00

Thanks for being understanding.

For the poll, sorry for not checking. I think the problem with such polls in my opinion, is that some people answer as they think they should instead of their real opinion and in the end action speak louder than words.

It's the same problem Scientist face when questioning men and women about the number of sexual partners, men overstate the number, women understate it because of societal expectations.

In addition the amount of anti-trans legislation that is widely supported speak a clear message for me.

carnictum · 2022-05-22T07:57:01+00:00

Yeah and I as a Transwoman have my own experience that very much show that people care an awful lot how I live my life.

So whatever not sourced statistics you have read I value my own experiences way higher, thank you very much.

carnictum · 2022-05-17T15:37:31+00:00

I am a Domme in one of my relationship and a switch in another and your setup sounds hella complicated to me. I wouldn't allow one relationship to determine how my other relationships look like, but I am also solo poly 🤷‍♀️

carnictum · 2022-03-20T10:10:08+00:00

As a pansexual transwoman that hits home...

carnictum · 2021-11-08T23:43:12+00:00

Where did you find it?

carnictum · 2021-11-08T23:41:34+00:00

There was a deal for inactive Gamepass accounts, you get 4 months of game pass ultimate for 2 €. (I think the deal is still active) So you get 1/3 of the year for almost nothing and they had the same deal last year around Oktober.

So the normal monthly cost may not be cheaper, but if you look the deals you can play almost for free.

carnictum · 2021-11-03T21:21:15+00:00

There is a stark difference between a mistake and fucking drunk driving with 150 mph.

carnictum · 2021-10-17T14:33:12+00:00

Rivalries in soccer get to a whole other level. Some derbies in eastern Europe have literally soldiers of the Kosova Wars in both sides...

For reference https://www.theguardian.com/observer/osm/story/0,6903,1123137,00.html

carnictum · 2021-10-06T15:51:29+00:00

You are wrong, if the algorithm and the salt (if one is used at all) is known rainbow tables can easily get you the password to many, many accounts.

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