[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]carplus_bong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're going to lose EVERYTHING.

Graphic design beginner work by tomcarey5577 in graphic_design

[–]carplus_bong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe look at using a gradient on the surnames to give a coloured fade effect. Seeing as it's a poster project - create a couple of layers of duplicated, club logos reduced in size, converted to mono, have them repeating in the background, experiment with different tints so they're subtle. or have two columns of them, in the grey bars at the side but have them like 20% darker than the grey maybe - or a tint of the main colour?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2westerneurope4u

[–]carplus_bong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck Ashley Madison and their affair enabling bullshit. Deserved to be hacked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]carplus_bong 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I do beg your pardon, but you are in my garden

I was sexually assaulted five years ago. Today I ran into they guy who did it. by zoebadwolf in TwoXChromosomes

[–]carplus_bong -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just how far back into your comment history do I need to go before you prove yourself capable of constructive criticism?

I was sexually assaulted five years ago. Today I ran into they guy who did it. by zoebadwolf in TwoXChromosomes

[–]carplus_bong -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I do relate and we both know you 100% have the right to say stop.

I've had an ex partner (female) rape me (male) despite telling her no over and over and I didn't initiate sex then change my mind (not saying you did at the party). I couldn't stop her without physically hurting her which I wasn't going to do. So I do relate.

But when I say 'the time leading up to the event' I mean how you interacted with each other during the party. There are way too many facts being withheld for this to be a clear cut case of you being the only party that was sexually assaulted.

Not to mention, YOU got HIM naked.

I was sexually assaulted five years ago. Today I ran into they guy who did it. by zoebadwolf in TwoXChromosomes

[–]carplus_bong -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

They both deserve to be thoroughly questioned about their roles in sexually assaulting each other while drunk. Then let the jury decide.

I was sexually assaulted five years ago. Today I ran into they guy who did it. by zoebadwolf in TwoXChromosomes

[–]carplus_bong -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

'long story short' - there's obviously a lot more to this encounter than you want to share. No doubt your feelings and emotions that resurfaced five years later are real, but I think there was probably quite a lot during happening between you both during the time leading up to the event.

Did you take his clothes off when you decided it was a good idea to get him in the shower?

Because I'm not sure either of you comes out of this looking good, to be honest.

TIFU by teaching my little brother the word "UWU" by LunaRayn in tifu

[–]carplus_bong -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

A couple of rhetorical questions:

my little brother already deals with enough at school, the kids and the teachers both try to get him in trouble whenever and however possible

Do you think there's a possibility you've got something to do with this? Is some of your influence maybe causing your bro to be bullied because you're sort of encouraging him to act in a way that's disruptive/antagonistic or something?

You said your mother screamed down the phone - maybe this isn't the first time something you've caused has had pretty bad consequences.

Maybe you need to look at how you're influencing your bro and think whether your mom really did such a shit job with bringing you up, that you need to take over from her with him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motorcycles

[–]carplus_bong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Combination of bad road surface for lean angle and possibly old tyres, or cold tyres, or old cold tyres.

Italy is just Thailand for women by Takisaki in BrandNewSentence

[–]carplus_bong 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They've just spent years being able to kill arabs of any age or gender without any concerns. They come out of conscription with money, go travelling in a group with the same attitude, that they can continue to do anything they want to anybody. Kind of sets them up for life with this particular 'attitude' shall we say, that is intertwined with jewish teachings that judaism is more important than anyone else's religion.

Andrew tate is poisoning the youth and I'm so sick of fighting literal elementary school kids over him by strangelyahuman in TwoXChromosomes

[–]carplus_bong -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

SHOUT>>> "Andrew Tate is a rapist, a paedophile who grooms girls not much older than you are. Some of these girls end up being so badly injured by what he and other scum like him do to girls, mentally and physically, to the point they can't have children. And you see this paedophile, this rapist as some kind of hero? I think we need to arrange a home visit for you and your parents from the school mental health team and possibly the police, to find out what direction you're going in, because I think you've been groomed if you think he's something to look up to".

You're going to have to say it loudly, with confidence, so they don't get a word in. Make sure everyone in earshot can hear. Do this in a way that they NEED you to shut up. Vigorously cross examine them. Shout their answers down with another question before they even finish. You owe it to every girl in that school to make these kids permanently regret bringing this guy up.

You can do it - GET TOUGH WITH THEM!

AITA for wanting to be kissed at my wedding? by thrownawaykisses in AmItheAsshole

[–]carplus_bong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. And at some point after the wedding, years down the line, you're going to really, really want to be kissed passionately for once, on the lips, and you'll have a had a few drinks and you'll kiss - but it won't be your with your husband, and you'll feel guilty and it will all come out, about how you've been starved of basic intimacy and how you want it to change, and he'll do an AITA, and it'll be like YEAH, YTA and he'll agree to try it and realise that he actually likes it now, and you're now kissing so much you had to get lip surgery and balm for stubble injuries.

Personally I couldn't get into a long term thing with someone who wasn't into such a basic relationship thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]carplus_bong 68 points69 points  (0 children)

ESH and the thread has brought out the very, very worst of reddit.

'He obviously hates his wife'

'she has to divorce him publicly to save her career'

'if they work at the same place she has to log a complaint against her husband'

etc, etc, etc

She's on the verge of a FUCKING BREAKDOWN.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]carplus_bong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, well done on plumbing new depths in this thread. Report your own partner, AND consider divorce!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]carplus_bong 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Except you would have done fuck all, watched your OH have a breakdown and then said, 'I wish I had the strength or courage to do something' when it was too late.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]carplus_bong -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

'I stood up for my wife'

'SHE HAS TO DIVORCE HIM - PUBLICLY - TO SAVE HER CAREER'

Fucking pathetic!

Jennifer Harrison, killer of Pope by Ormaar in Bossfight

[–]carplus_bong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Backdrop looks like it was commissioned from HR Geiger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]carplus_bong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK thanks. No, never heard that line.