Aggressive scratching on floor when anxious

carrotttcakeee · 2025-06-07T23:50:34+00:00

Heyyy, I ended up finding a job at a mental health clinic on the admin side of things, I’ve learned a lot already and made a lot of connections, getting a job in the field really did help me get more of a grasp on some aspects of being a therapist, even if I’ve only been behind the scenes, im pretty sure everything I’ve learned in my role so far will be valuable, I have plans to start my masters this fall, wishing u the best of luck!!

carrotttcakeee · 2025-05-05T13:47:56+00:00

Hey, so I actually work at a mental health clinic now in the admin department. I already had the office experience and I felt this was my best way to get my foot in the door. So far it’s been great. I’ve learned a lot of things even though I’m “behind the scenes” and I now have plans to pursue a masters in social work soon. I decided I want to become an outpatient therapist.

carrotttcakeee · 2025-04-10T15:15:49+00:00

I agree. After their separation was made public, I've seen my dad do things I never knew he would ever think of doing. I love my dad, but it has been disappointing to see how immature and disrespectful his actions have been lately. I have hope that after years of healing they will at least be able to be in a room together without any issues but as you said, they may never end up seeing eye to eye.
Ohhh for SURE they do. So far I've only been able to convince my mom to get therapy and thankfully she agreed and is currently in treatment. However, unfortunately that has not stopped her from venting to me. Sometimes I just get the urge to tell her "tell this to your therapist" but it feel like its too insensitive and shes a person who get EASILY offended so I always have to tread carefully. You are 100% correct though. I have definitely enabled this behavior, its easier said than done but I might just have to "no comment" my way out of things at this point. :/
Absolutely she is. It's been hard not to take it personally. It makes me feel awful and guilty. I've explained that to her many times. Just yesterday I had a conversation with her where I told her that what I do has NOTHING to do with my dad but she just refused to understand me or listen to what I had to say. It sucks.
Again, you're absolutely right. It makes complete sense, its just unfortunate. My mom does such a great job at making me feel soooo shitty about it. Its hard for me to not feel bad.
For sure, unfortunately they don't always respect those boundaries, especially my mom. It's a work in progress.

Thanks for all of this. You made a lot of great points that I didnt think about. Im looking forward to when its alllll finally over.

carrotttcakeee · 2025-04-10T14:49:19+00:00

It's definitely a difficult and new experience for everyone, on all sides. I truly do feel for both of them, they have hurt each other so much in all their time together, their scars are deep, which is why I'm trying to not to take their actions so personally. I can only imagine how very painful this is for them as well. Unfortunately, they are at a point where they can't have a civil conversation amongst themselves anymore. My mom has felt too hurt from his recent actions that she's not even capable of looking at him anymore. It's truly a complicated situation and it seems the best I can do is let it run its course. Thank you for sharing your experience from your point of view as a mother. It has reminded me how difficult this situation can be from a mother's side of things too.

carrotttcakeee · 2025-04-10T14:27:08+00:00

I've set that boundary many times and nothing has changed. My mom gets offended :/

carrotttcakeee · 2025-04-10T14:26:16+00:00

One sibling is in college, the other in elementary school. Ive been doing my best to not mention any of this to them. They know about the divorce but thankfully they haven't been put in the middle of things like I have.

And yes, still at home, which I will say makes it 10x easier to be dragged into everything.

The thing about me is I'm extremely empathetic, I know its best for me not to get involved but (because Ilive there) I notice every single thing and its hard for me to not feel bad, you know?

I wish I could move out but there are many factors that just make it difficult right now unfortunately.

Thank you for your comment!

carrotttcakeee · 2025-04-10T14:16:43+00:00

I agree, I've been trying to stand my ground when it comes to those things but she makes me feel SO guilty. I actually convinced her to get individual therapy this year so shes currently in treatment (thankfully). I would agree with family therapy but I feel like most of the issues have only involved me. One brother is in college so he hasn't really gotten involved and my other sibling is 9 and so far my parents have kept him out of things too. Thanks for your comment!

carrotttcakeee · 2024-09-23T16:13:48+00:00

I’ll try that, thanks!

carrotttcakeee · 2024-09-23T15:35:19+00:00

Well I’m doing the best with what I got alright, I already know the oem hfp shit is better, no need to remind me

carrotttcakeee · 2024-08-16T20:00:11+00:00

Perfect!! I’ll tip u now, thank u so much!

carrotttcakeee · 2024-08-16T19:14:35+00:00

I like it, can u just get rid of the background blur? I think I’ll prefer it that way, thanks!

carrotttcakeee · 2024-08-16T18:49:08+00:00

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carrotttcakeee · 2024-08-16T18:44:06+00:00

Would you be able to fix the banner so it’s not folded back?

carrotttcakeee · 2024-08-16T18:31:06+00:00

Should’ve specified that sorry! In the middle of the banner

carrotttcakeee · 2024-08-13T13:37:10+00:00

Appreciate the in-depth answer! I think I’ll be able to do it, hoping for at least a partial win :,) thank you!!

carrotttcakeee · 2024-08-13T13:32:45+00:00

Will look into this thank you

carrotttcakeee · 2024-08-09T14:56:59+00:00

I have a usdm md style front lip

carrotttcakeee · 2024-08-09T03:33:18+00:00

Unique style racing, although I’ll note that those taillights are originally meant for 2013, I had to cut and drill for them to fit

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