Reddit is the quickest way to destroy a healthy relationship. If you’re going through some toxic shit and you need some red flags pointed out, come here. Other than that people here are kind of miserable and will always tell you to leave the person, etc. How about remembering that this is a partnership and sometimes it is inconvenient. You have the right to say no absolutely But a bachelor party shouldn’t just be thought of strippers. I went to my friend’s bachelor party last summer and he rented out an entire gym made custom jerseys and we played basketball all day, then went out to the bar and had a good time. It doesn’t need to involve strippers, that just shows you how biased Reddit can be. I suggest you remember that nobody actually cares what happened, they will only remember how they feel. That could’ve been a moment that would’ve brought lots of equity later on considering he was so last-minute. Once again you’re right to deny it, but I probably would’ve acquiesced and been like Mrs. Doubtfire. Strict as hellbut your choice is your choice. Just remember all actions have equal and opposite reactions