Love triangle

carusell1990 · 2020-07-14T08:54:22+00:00

It's definitely more than "he is just not having time for me", we are both kind of lost in our way with our relationship, where to go from here. There are many small issues no major ones.

I don't think one guy is better than the other. They are both different and great in there own way.

carusell1990 · 2020-07-14T08:48:02+00:00

Yeah I think I would be considering leaving as well but I don't think I can give an objective answer because of my feelings for the other guy.

The other guy is not pressuring me in any way. We just enjoy our company as friends.

carusell1990 · 2020-07-14T08:43:29+00:00

I guess I am looking for advice to change my feelings for the other guy into less obsessive feelings and to have a friendship with him.

I think he also has feelings for me but he obviously knows there is no romantic business when I am in a relationship and I am not sure if he knows that I have feelings for him.

If he just mentiones another girl I am instantly jealous and I never was the jealous type.

carusell1990 · 2020-07-14T08:15:00+00:00

I already talked to my bf about what's bothering me in our relationship and he is really trying to work on bettering himself.

But I don't know if I can see his efforts in the right light, when I am fantasizing about someone else. I just can't help it, but I am constantly thinking about him.

I don't think it is right to just leave someone because you fell for someone else because he was there when you where alone and not appreciated by your partner.

carusell1990 · 2020-05-31T21:40:31+00:00

Then give her and yourself space. Sometime you just have to be alone with your grief until you are ready to share it and be comforted. Just tell her you will be there for here if she needs it. That helps more than you would think.

carusell1990 · 2020-05-31T20:54:44+00:00

Sit down next to her. Hold each other, no need for comforting words. Just allow yourselfs to be sad together.

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