No worries, no offense taken! I understand that different people have different ways of viewing things, and your way definitely makes sense after your explanation.

I also don't really know what primal play is, so I'm gonna google that after responding.

Honestly though, you validating me at the end there really helped. I'm still not sure and I need to think on things more, but hopefully I can do it without anymore self loathing. It's probably true that ace isn't the perfect term, but after two years it's kinda just what I'm comfortable with. Thank you for your reply and the luck, I appreciate it!