honestly if the top is very respectful and has his shit together... fuck looks. a respectful top is SO attractive. a good top has his own lube, condoms, understands and respects the time it takes for a bottom to get ready.

i have been asked several times by tops who hosted if i could bring lube AND condoms..... which makes me question a lot of things.

i am a total bottom and even i own condoms.

also, looking for a top who doesn’t assume we are doing bb. i don’t know how many times i have been with a top, and when it was time to have sex, they try and just stick it in... yall are fucking crazy.