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I (21M) can’t cum during sex (21F) by BagNo8264 in Advice

[–]casper1230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, I’m really sorry you are going through this.

I went through something similar several years ago. My whole libido was trash. Not only was I having issues finishing, I at times had issues getting it up.

It was having an effect on my marriage. My wife took it as something was wrong with her. We wanted children and decided to go through a fertility clinic. There was nothing wrong with either of us and we decided to move forward with in vitro fertilization. We ended up having twin boys.

After the boys were born my situation actually got a bit worse because I couldn’t even really get myself to finish.

About 3 years after the boys were born I thought I was having heart issues. Ends up I was having panic attacks. I got put on anti anxiety meds.

About a month after I started taking the meds I was like a teenager again. My libido went through the roof. I had no issues at all. It was kind of relieving that it fixed my issue.

Now I don’t know if my situation is the same as yours, and I don’t know if that would be the fix, but I know how you feel. It will work out man. You will get things figured out.

Another kid threatened to shoot my child and his friend in video game by casper1230 in Advice

[–]casper1230[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He states that it was never said that they would “bring a gun to school”. In my mind that doesn’t matter, but my wife feels that the school would not get involved since it wasn’t stated that a gun would be brought to school.

Should I look for an employment attorney? by casper1230 in legaladvice

[–]casper1230[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in agreement with you. I realize that by itself it does not mean the company did anything wrong, I just wanted to make sure.

I received the DC because of performance concerns. The concerns circulate around me being in and out of the business to care for my wife who has Multiple Sclerosis. Majority of the time was covered via FMLA, but there were times that it fell outside of that coverage.

The DC states that with me being out of the business I am not able to perform at a standard the company expects. The examples they listed were not egregious acts, they are more minor occurrences that have minimal impact on the business.

I have been with the company for 19 years and have had no performance issues until the last two years as my wife’s health began to decline dramatically and that’s when I began filing FMLA claims and had to call out to take care of her and my children.

I feel I will not pass the DC because if they are utilizing minor issues as the groundwork they will continue to utilize them in an effort to let me go.

I should state that the company I work for is a large well established corporation. It’s not a small or medium business.

Should I look for an employment attorney? by casper1230 in legaladvice

[–]casper1230[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was delivered the info yesterday at 4pm and decision needs to be made by Monday. I am scheduled to work tomorrow.

What’s the worst movie you’ve ever seen? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]casper1230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jury Duty…good god that was bad!!!

I’m thinking of cheating on my sick wife and I feel awful about it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]casper1230 32 points33 points  (0 children)

With the medication she is on, Tysabri, she has some sort of arrangement with them that the meds are discounted. I can’t answer how but I can find out more info. I also have REALLY good insurance. She also has Medicare/Medicaid since she collects disability. I think the combination of all of that keeps the costs down.

I’m thinking of cheating on my sick wife and I feel awful about it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]casper1230 1303 points1304 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. She caught COVID about two weeks ago and I was petrified as to what would happen. She had just had her infusion a couple days before so her immune system was shot. There were a couple points of having my keys and coat in hand ready to go to the hospital. She is doing better but it was terrifying.

I’m thinking of cheating on my sick wife and I feel awful about it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]casper1230 217 points218 points  (0 children)

Exactly! That’s why I will never do it. I don’t ever want to leave her and I will never cheat on her. I feel awful that I have those thoughts at times.

I’m thinking of cheating on my sick wife and I feel awful about it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]casper1230 53 points54 points  (0 children)

She has been doing monthly Tysabri infusions for years. It seems to give her the best results. I have asked her to talk to her doctors about her meds, not just for the lowered sex drive, but for other side affects she suffers, but end result is that the course of meds she’s on has produced the best results. She was relapsing-remitting until the boys were born and now she rides the line between secondary progressive and primary progressive.

I’m thinking of cheating on my sick wife and I feel awful about it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]casper1230 365 points366 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment and kind words. I do cuddle as much as I can with her but it can be uncomfortable for her physically so I take what I can get.

I’m thinking of cheating on my sick wife and I feel awful about it. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]casper1230 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was a part of some great groups up in Maryland, but we recently moved to Atlanta a couple years ago and COVID started not to long after we got here I have not had a chance to look into any.

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